8 Early Signs Someone's Going To Ghost You

Don’t let getting ghosted crush you. Friends, like money, come and go. Great when it’s there, sucks when it’s not, but with a little effort you can always get more.

The two best ways to handle ghosting are 1) don't get attached unless you know and SEE that the person care about you 2) have your own opinion about yourself, so that someone disliking and disrespecting you doesn't crash your self-esteem

honestly i need a video on how to stop ghosting, im always so tired everyday that i dont find the motivation to respond to any texts and end up ghosting and hurting my friend that i care more about than my own life (not that hard as a very su!c!d@l person but you get what i mean)

anyone have advise? i have a crush and we’ve been friends since the 7th she moved in 8th and came back in 9th. it it currently the 10th grade now and me and her have been talking more then usual and we even went on a “date” we went roller skating but it’s the first time we hung out in person outside of school, i think she might like me back. a friend of ours used to teased us and we both were like “nuh uh”or stayed silent or something like that, this might just be my mind but im starting to feel as though she’s tired of me, we used to be on ft and even fall asleep together but now we don’t ft very often anymore, sometimes she only responds to my messages with a heart (soft ghosting) but she hits me up like hours later, it puts you in a situation where you ether end the convo or double text. i don’t wanna bother her and i understand if she’s busy but im getting mixed emotions about her and idk if it’s just my mind of if im being weird or if i’m right or what, one day i feel she’s into be because she’s replying fast or on call, laughing at my jokes or playfully nudging me in the hall, other days i feel like im just being weird or she’s not interested and sometimes it feels like she wants to avoid me or our convos feel awkward or she’ll make a confused face at me in a conversation and that just hurts me because i really don’t wanna come off weird i genuinely like her and wanna get to know her, we’re not dating so all these thoughts shouldn’t be going around in my head right? i sometimes wait for her in the halls or look for her in the mornings/afternoons in school she even asked me too once but she doesn’t do the same back… maybe she only sees me as a friend but doesn’t wanna make me upset or she likes me back and she’s struggling on showing it back, we used to just say hey or have a small convo but nothing much more and i always thought she was cute and cool and had a little crush but now it feels like i have a genuine attachment to her, i don’t know how i should approach this? should i tell her i like her? should i cut back and stop talking to her? am i just being obsessive and creepy? do i do the same things back? (soft ghosting, stop starting the convos as often: etc if you read all of thing thank you so much and please give me some advice i think i need some

It unfortunately happened to me recently as well. It happened with a guy I was dating for about two months, we event made an awesome trip to Norway for a few days and we were planning to go there on New Years Eve again. I even already announced to my manager that I would take days off in the beginning of January.

The guy was responding to my messages less the last few days before he ghosted me, so I felt that there was something off. But we still chatted and then he ghosted me IN THE MIDDLE OF OUR CONVERSATION! I asked him about his day and he wrote to me that he was busy but he would like to meet me that week. So I responded to him that he shouldn't work as much and I asked him which day would be good for him... and he didn't even read the message (you can see that on fb), let alone respond. And I know he still lives, because he has new photos on his Tinder profile, so he didn't die, but I see him as if he was dead to me.

He repeatedly told me that he was a nice guy and that he was sorry for the bad guys I had dated before (compared to him they are saints). He even complained that his ex broke up with him over the phone, that it was so rude of her. And then he did this to me. LOL, what a jerk.

Ghosting is awful. I have been ghosted 2 times by two women who i loved and i thought they loved me. I will never recover from this and im never trusting someone again.

all of my friends ghosted me, which gave me suicidal ideations

I'm being ghosted so I blocked the person this person is telling me that their busy but they still talk about getting together and the next day they are busy only now I realised that she's ghosting me that I should get obsessed with her

I only ever ghost someone at the VERY beginning of messaging, when it doesn't matter. Like we talk for 10 mins back and forth and I realize they're super weird and we aren't clicking. But me and this guy had an actual date planned, and he seemed enthusiastic and flirty and we seemed to be on the same page, then he just ended the Bumble chat with no warning hahah. I'm over it, but it was kind of icky.

Been ghosted before in the past has left me with trust issues and solidarity. I’m currently going through this with my ex. If you’re reading this, just know even though they don’t reach out, their silence is still an answer. Actions speak louder than words. Ghosting is a horrible, mental torture tactic.

Lol my friend used to be supportive to me and now she doesn’t even respond to my messages that much

I ended it when they start trying to let me down easy🤦🏾‍♀️ next thing i know they calling me alot

"You always reach out" that hit deep.

This is not a good list.

But... What if they introduce you to their friends at beginning of the "relationship"an then ghost You? That's another level of ghosting?😢

The feeling of being ghosted, it made me wanted to shut myself away! 😢

real.

that should be a crime as it fuu---s with your had so bad you might need a psy dock !

My phone is silent except for a handful of people texting me that still care because I stopped reaching out first and now I never hear from anyone. The phone works both ways. Some "friends" they were...

Man this is so relatable i really hate it

None of these videos consider that you may ghost people to end a toxic relationship. I wouldn’t be alive today if I had kept contact with my abusive family or the toxic people I had allowed into my life. It’s absolutely arrogant for these commenters to pretend that ghosting is not ever okay, and to categorize all people who ghost as monsters without thinking about how messed up the person who got ghosted may have been treating that person. YOU DO NOT OWE AN ABUSER A RESPONSE. YOU DO NOT OWE AN ABUSER AN EXPLANATION. YOU DON’T OWE THEM YOUR GUILT FOR THEIR LACK OF CLOSURE.

You do owe it to yourself to create the best life you can. If that means that someone’s feelings get hurt along the way because they were part of the problem and needed to be dropped, then so be it.

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I never ghosted anyone but my close ex friend did for 2 weeks! I really thought she was mature enough not to because it really didn’t seem like her to ghost anyone. 😢

I dont think i ever talked to anyone, friends included, where they talked to me first in any conversation

So I was friends with this girl I had a crush on. We used to talk all the time in school and text each other almost every day. When I found out she had a boyfriend, I was so hurt that I couldn’t bring myself to communicate with her anymore. I ignored her in school and ignored her texts. I eventually got over it (mostly) and continued talking to her. However it was a lot less than before. I didn’t talk to her as much in school mostly because I was still embarrassed to talk to her, and we didn’t text nearly as much. Eventually we just stopped talking to each other outright both in school and through texting. On one hand I am sad I did this because I loved talking to her and it would always brighten up my day, but on the other hand, keeping my distance from her is helping me get over my crush on her, and I don’t think it ended up hurting her. She already had tons of friends in school and out and it’s not like I was her best friend or something. She told me to never ghost her again, but she never looked upset and never said she was upset when I was gone, so I don’t think it really affected her. Of course, I could be wrong, but that’s just the vibe I get. Sometimes I want to text her but I’m always embarrassed to and I don’t know what to say, so I don’t. Our relationship feels like a lost cause, and I’m both happy and sad about it. I just hope it never affected her.

I have ghosted people who don't respect my boundaries, I'm getting old and don't want to waste my time with people who keeps doing things that make me feel uncomfortable

First time I got ghosted fell bad; Now, I feel bad for the other person, just imagine the family they came from, their upbringing, their culture, their character.

We went out, he introduced me to his family, but damn... im so confuse

If someone Ghosts you for no reason they have something to hide or are guilty of something.

Really ghost you if you do not notice that they said goodbye already to anybody I really care about I'm glad I always say see you later 💔✌🏽

If only this video got recommended for me 1 week earlier. also yay i am 2,000th comment!

Big deal 😂

I ghosted someone, she was a whiny, clingy, entitled person who couldn't accept that her boyfriend is a white supremacist. I don't regret it in the slightest and ive been feeling a lot better since cutting her out.

im busy..or going through something

Just don't waste your time and energy on people who don't invest equally. Move on with your life.
If people dumped you, it means you're no longer of value for them. It doesn't mean you're bad, it's just the roads of live have split, and nothing unites you.
There are no lasting friends, only lasting mutual interests

HAH I GOT FULL MARKS

Someone is ghosting u?




Let the dead rest in peace🗿

I have an aunt who when I’d call to say hi she would always say I’m just walking out the door. I haven’t called her in 30 years

I don’t like getting close to people.

This hurts a lot 😢😭😭

I am sorry for ghosting you bruh (if you're reading this). I just cannot talk anymore due to some troubles, i was forced to stop talking 'kay? Plus phone calls aren’t a thing for me from the start. :( SORRY!

Just my opinion but I hate when people just reply with an emoji. It's just rude

i was the ghost but not cuz i wa snot interested. its because something hurtful happened. and i didnt want to do it. it was very painful. but i had no choice

Maybe they're just sick of the 400 texts a day and the freakout if they wait 5 minutes before answering any one of them. And the general assumption they have no life outside of you.

Had this happen to me exactly as this video described. It was gut wrenching. No real explanation, just a brief “I don’t wanna do this anymore” and poof, gone. Ghosting is cruel, don’t do it.

I"m surprised "they add you on snapchat too soon" or something similar was not one cause that's been 💯 a sign in my past.

Poor grammar and spelling? I'm profoundly dyslexic and will make lots of spelling errors. Additionally, thanks to autocorrect, I will sometimes substitute one word for another. This can be hilarious. If you introduce me to new words, this is likely to happen. Don't make spelling issues, an issue as it were.

Ghosting doesn't mean when that person ignores you once or only few times...to know who is ghosting exactly see the social media chats having repeating pattern of not replying and just seeing the message...if this pattern occurs more than 20 times then it's ghosting...this always worked for me and blocked these ppl out of my life....oh you can also check the same pattern for the call. And for face to face talks, observe that person how he/she is with others and compare it with yourself...if that person as mentioned in video gives only brief responses and this keeps on repeating where they are so talkative with many people...but less talkative only with you then 100% consider this as ghosting.

You might notice these things happen with increasing frequency as the relationship deteriorates while the coward still continues their façade. This has happened to me in two official relationships and two that I thought were developing into relationships in the past 5 years. 100% of the relationships I've finally opened up to have ended this way since 2018 - with a knife in the heart through the back. I have little to no trust in others anymore, it just seems foolishly idealistic to imagine it not happening in the modern social climate.