Healing my relationship to my Sexuality | masturbation, kinks and healing

I can't explain how much I love, what you do. You empower so many of us and the influence, you take into the world is so pure and whole and full of deep love, without any shame.
Thank you so much, Hatomi❤❤❤

far too real- being 17 and having sex it’s amazing to have someone talking about this stuff before it happens.

I am so sorry that you had those experiences in middle school. I want to say thank you for talking about it tho because my sexual experience was very similar to yours and it was really rough. I lost my v to the schools stoner lol and he was genuinely so respectful and sweet and tried to stand up for me. But as an eight grader word got around and I was emotionally and physically harrassed by my peers. I had people steal stuff, slam me into lockers or push chairs off tables on to me. I was harrased over social media and it was really scary. I also didn't know how to say no and was involved with people over apps like yellow and it was terrifying. Even now in my early twenties I find myself ashamed occasionally when I know I don't have to be. So sorry for word vomit but I am really thankful you shared your story a bit because I have truly felt alone in those experiences for so long. Thank you again <3 I also hope that you are well

I'm 16 and I haven't had any sexual experiences yet. I feel so pressured by my environment and generation, and also so unwanted because it feels that no one wants to have any kind of intercourse with me. It has affected my self-esteem and specially my standards. Thank you Hitomi for making me feel like I'm not a weirdo for not wanting certain things and wanting to own my sexuality. Lots of love🫶🏽

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As someone who is on their journey to finally reclaim their own sexuality to realease childhood sexual trauma. This video was deeply insightful and informative, thank you!. I want to honor this energy because i realize it is very sacred, but i fear overcompesating due to repressing all my sexual expression most of my adult life, until now. Hopefully, with the right guidance, i will experience sexuality in a healthy manner. Thank you for being open about your healing journey 🙏

Me and my girlfriend trying to make vidoez of each other masterbation b ecouse she lives far away. I suggested it it's for us. It's like doing it together.

i thank you so much for you talking about it, i have trauma with masturbation and sex and you show me that i can love myself again slowly

I'm so sorry about everything that's happened to you, thank you for sharing your experience💓

I'm so glad I found your videos regarding sexual healing and normalcy. 💓

Is it weird that I am not a lesbian yet sex with women feels so much more safer to even explore as an option?

Wow! You’re so open about your experience it’s eye opening… you go girl.

I was initially attracted to your channel because you are beautiful. But now I see you as a guru of spiritualism!
Thanks for all your guidance

Hitomi ,
I feel like you but I am a man .

Sexually empowered women 🦋 I didn’t even know what to grow towards in relationships to women.

Thank u so much hitomi for sharing this video. I am re-watching this as I am still on my journey of healing sexual trauma and lack of boundaries. Your story really helps.

thank you so much!! 🙏🏻 your are wonderful

It moves … wow

100%! The only thing I don't relate to, not judging, is kink. So much of what you said is spot-on and relatable.

Wow! I am in awe of your wisdom, self love and self acceptance at such a young age. I am 52 and just learning so many of those lessons now as I unravel all of the shame that this culture places on women and sexuality. It brings me such hope to see beautiful young women like you using such difficult experiences for healing and empowerment and to model to other young women around you. I have shared this video with my 17-year-old daughter and only wish I would’ve found it a few years ago to send to her earlier. So glad I found your video. It’s given me so much inspiration and food for thought and I can’t wait to watch your other videos. Blessings to you for your courage❤

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This is so close to my sexual journey and it is really cool that I'm not alone in this and that there is so much more to come

What a fantastic resource for healing. Thank you!

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I love, love how open you are with this, it loosens something so tight in me when I get into the topic of sexuality for women. I wasn't aware that I have so much tension around it. You make it sound safe, seen, okay, acceptable and truly loved in every way, in all the planes.

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thank you so much for this

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Thank you for talking about this so grateful for this

I took my own virginity. I did it because I was told to that is was a special gift to give a man…. So at 13 I gave my self the gift of forever claiming my virtue. Lol I thought I was the only one. Love the videos thank you

This is so relatable. Thank you so much for making this video,🤍 I wish I had videos like this to watch when I was in highschool. You make me feel so heard

,ESPETACULAR . INCRÍVEL . MAGNÍFICA MARAVILHOSA..

hitomi, you are so strong and i'm really proud of you that you've started that journey. you make me feel stronger and not alone. thank you for all your videos and information which i cannot sometimes find online or ask someone. thank you for being my teacher🙏💌

You're just saying everything I've been thinking about lately, I relate so much to all of what you said. Thank you

I’m really glad that you are talking about this things. This can help a lot of young people and also me to understand more ❤️

This is exactly what I needed to hear today

dear sister, whoever is reading this, I hope you heal <3

you're such an inspiration

Thank you, Hitomi!

Are Yoni eggs safe to use ???

Ive been celibate for 2 years it's power but Sounds like you were being targeted by a dark spiritual groups we learn from lessons dig deeper in case you have a spiritual parasite peace and love

What if I feel sexually met with someone so safe but not spiritually connected with them. this is something that I struggle with.

Thank you for sharing all this and creating an open environment for young women!

Thank you so much for sharing. Your experience is so inspiring and empowering. Makes me feel understood and accepted. I am glad that you grew from those traumatic experiences and were able to get that far in your personal journey. Thank you for sharing it with love and kindness. Best wishes

I related so hard (heh) to some of this. It's like I locked up my inner sexual goddess because of my trauma, etc. and have been so afraid of ever letting her out again. My goal is to change that this year, and this video gives me faith that I can. <3

I've been watching your channel for years, I love your videos you're gorgeous!

I have a therapist, but i wish i have a therapist that is so open, honest and spiritual like you, with which i coule speak about sex and all that comes with it!

Really appreciated. You are beautiful, within and out :)

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