First Time With An Older Man

I met my partner when I was 28 and he was 45 met met in a bar on a blind date as a joke and it lasted 30 years until he passed away from cancer in 2014, today everyone is looking for instant gratification, I want it now and do it, I went a couple of years before I started going out again, the first young guy after spending the night wanted to know when he was getting a key to my new BMW, todayguys don't even spend the night, it's about how quickly they can get the next d**k, I'm glad you enjoy older men, I'm finding now that I'm in my 60s most gay men feel we are throw aways

I don't like older or younger. I depends on the person. I dated young and old guys when I was young. And I still do.

congrats, as a 75 y.o. man who thinks you are tremendously handsome, i am glad you had that experience. care for another?

Hi, I'm a new subscriber here and I like your videos.. Your mis fortune you told of the older guy that you confessed your love too after one date is a similar experience i had with a younger guy.. im 59 and he was 35, it was such a good connection that the next day I told him I loved him and was blocked from texted him.. for 5 hours of bliss now amounts to 3 weeks ( and counting) of torture for me. and I'm not sure I can ever get over it.. Your story is so real to me. I couldn't believe what i was hearing .. thanks, Chris

When I was in my twenties I meet a sixty year old guy in work we became friends then lovers we were together for twenty years till he passed. He was the love of my life. Now I am the older guy. And meet younger guys.

Old soul means you have been here before.

Thanks for doing this video. I have 2 guys in there 20s that like me and as a 39 year old I have wondered if there interest was significant or not. This video you made answered that question. Thank you

I can tell u who do it better white guys I love a white guy , my type of white guy ,slim and petite, I love their masculinity,the best guy to have .

Dude you don’t have an old soul! Of course, they flatter you cause they want sex!!!

Whoreing around!

Thank you for recognizing that men over forty can be a good thing for guys your age. 😇

What a decent young lad that you are . I've only recently come across your page due to constantly negative grindr experiences in my home town in northern Queensland Australia. Here many younger lads are overly toxic and age fussey and we all get shunted so we avoid generally the gay community as well as limit our use of the toxic grindr app. Your a breath of fresh air and only wished that you lived here. Im sure you would treat us right and put many of the younger gay guys here in there place. Ive subscribed and love listening to your smart views and such. Take care mate , stay safe and thanks once again for your honest and refreshing , as well as logical opinions , especially towards us " older" gay guys 😅❤🇦🇺🇺🇸🤴

I have been amazed at how many younger guys (20 to 50's) are interested in meeting up. It is amazing what you can learn by just listening. We have so much to learn from one another, not just sexually!

I,m A Older Gay Man Looking To Have A Relation ship with a Younger Gay Man I Live In Ohio

Very cool video, new viewer here... and I'm older. Love your perspective and honesty. Checking out your other media sites! ;)

Sounds like me right now

Hi, I sure like your videos, I just subscribed to your channel.

My first hookup was from a 25 year old I met on Scruff I’m 56 at that point. The first time I was nervous af we ended up becoming friends we go to lots of hockey football and base ball games. Then we have our own games afterwards.

Nice story

I just stumbled onto your channel. Congrats! You have an easy manner, a great voice with ample resonance and good diction, and you know how to tell a story!

Thank you for wanting to hear our stories! It is as important for us to have the opportunity to pass along any tidbits of wisdom as it is for younger folxs to have that history in their pockets.
I'm sure you will succeed at whatever you decide to do.

And for the research mavens, I'm 67, and one of my most significant connections was with someone more than 30 years younger.

What a wonderful young guy you are;so genuine and sincere in your refreshing comments;giving hopes to older guys my age,73,to find younger guys like you wishing to have long lasting relationships and be able to sustain such relationship.A big thank you for that video;it really boosted my morale 🤗😊🙏🏻🙏🏻😓😍

after just a few hours together … you tell the guy that you love him and you want to spend every day with him? … YES … you ran him off … you went overboard

Richie come visit Vegas I'm older and I love gingers

Feminine guy... maybe that's the reason they want you? Idk

What do you think of Henry Kissinger?

I also found that my single friends, after saying how lonely they are, when I asked them "Do you really want a partner", most saying "no, I guess I don't."

It's funny, not really, that some younger guys seem to have this thought that older men were born old. We were all young kids once.

My deceased partner of 32 years had a 12 yr age difference. It was great for us...he knew the best music and I knew how to sooth a restless soul

Older men, though not muscle tops, know how to find a partner's body hot spots as well lots of good conversation

You need Jesus we all need Jesus stop looking in your own understanding cause we are all sinners by nature, Jesus died on the cross and resurrected from the cross to free us from sin all we need to do is follow the commandments and accept Jesus as your lord and savior

Hi RIchie, just caught your recent video and loved it very much, I think you are adorable!!. As an older gay man ( 62) I like older guys as well, We are much settled in our lives both emotionally and financially and have been through many experiences and have lived a lot by then. As you stated, we can get beyond the drama cuz we have seen and heard it all before. It was very gratifying to see a video like this by someone your age and know that us older gents are not ready to be "put out to pasture" just yet, We still have a lot to offer. Keep those vids coming and i'll be waiting and watching!

Most of the “community “ miss out on the benefit of experience. 😉

When a guy in his 20's says he does it with an older man, he means 35...LOL... If your 50, good luck.. If your 60, you need to pay for it 😮😮😂😂

Richie, someone who finds you is very lucky. You are a very sweet and adorable young man. An angle. Happiness always for you. I am 78 with a partner of 43 years but I had short connections in my early 30s with younger men that I adored and wanted to be sweet and nurturing to them and help them in their coming out process. We gave each other wonderful moments of support and loving caresses and attention that made us both feel emotionally healthier.

very sweet stury dear and youvare very charming and handsome

I'm almost 50... Younger guys like you who are mature and know what you want keep us "older guys" young. Your in the perfect area for this I'm in the Phoenix/Scottsdale area. older crowd next to the University with the younger ones

well ritchie nice to here that mature older men atract you very much you dont here lots of that saying these days but i think its upto a the person them selfs of how they feel towards another if the vibesare there and its what attracts an individual thats all that matters it can be very complicated for some people more than others i like younger men as im a 57 year old gay guy my partner of 20 years is 12 years younger than me i was 35 when he was only 22 he came on to me so been together a long time thanks for there sharing of why and how your more atreactted to older mature men gives us much comfort and pleasure in hearing a storie that came from ritchie west.

As an older man now, I enjoyed hearing your story. I was lucky and have been in a 34 year relationship. But I enjoyed playing the field with men of all ages. It has been a joy. Cheers, BB

U are for the most part right, some older men are pretty much nice to be with. Some don't rush u, very careful gentle, loving.

well i have too say i am very happy you are honest with this i dont think people understand how an older and younger couple can relate , your a beutiful person thanx for sharing your story too us

When I was 19 I dated a man who was 50. Best relationship ever. He gave me strength for life. Whenever I have a problem, I ask myself ‘What would Philip do to solve this problem?’ And my brain miraculously comes up with a solution. Don’t know how it works - but it does.

I am now getting older but when was younger preferred the company of an older gentleman. What I found was people at my age, at that time, the "ending" was more important than the journey..... with an older man the journey is JUST as important.

I’m married to a 31 year younger guy than me and we love it. We have been together for 11years and married for 6. I love our life together.

Thanks for sharing. In my observation guys of different age gap are able to maintain a friendship/relationship better with each other and there's no competition between them. Sex is definitely hot. That's how nature complements and works sometimes.

I totally agree with you concerning older men. I tried dating men my own and and it was horrible. My husband is 20 years older than me, and it is wonderful. We have been married 21 years. I look forward to seeing you meet Mr. Right!

Richie, I think that, as an older man, we've been thru a lot of what you're talking and feeling about. We know how sad you can feel when being rejected or just "used". So, we have to especially careful when dealing with someone's feelings. As a fellow Marylander, near Baltimore, I can relate to you. Your interest in aviation is quit exciting. Good pilots are hard to find and can make a whole lotta money besides seeing the world. Me, I'd love to meet you someday.

Richie, you are a darling and you deserve to be with someone who appreciates and loves you for all the right reasons. Don't compromise or settle, ever! You do have an old soul, and it is beautiful! Love hearing your story! Thanks for sharing.

very nice and intelligent voice

this will be controversial but when i was 15 i actually fuck with a guy of 40 years old, it was obviously with my consent and i actually like it, not regret of that