Jordan Peterson: What to Do If You are Stuck in the Past?

Ranveer doesn't make proper research before podcast. If he calls a finance expert like kiyosaki, he never asks the questions related to finance

Ive been really sad recently not because im stuck in the past but because im sad that the memories are fading away. I feel like i cant remember anything from 3-4 years ago and i dont even have that many pictures or videos of my early childhood left. Its like everythings just meaningless because im gonna forget it by next year. Ive heard getting little sleep can make you forget things and i havent really slept that much lately and it makes me anxious about everything. I just recently switched schools and havent really been in touch with my friends. I feel like i was way more happy with them than i am right now. I really just want to go back to how things were a year ago. Everything i do is unproductive. I spend way too much time on my phone, im eating way too much unhealthy shit, im unorganised, lazy and im tired all the time. I just really dont like my life right now. Thank you if anyone took the time to read this and even if nobody does, venting like this does kinda help. Bye

Getting philosophy insights from Jordan Peterson is like getting health advice from Ronald McDonald.

They're advice might make you feel good in the moment but make you into a coloassal fool later.

Every windscreen has a rear view mirror on it.

Psychological gospel.

A month ago a did something that i am not proud of. I talked to my parents and a lot of the people around me about it and everyone said that what i did was perfectly normal and im worrying about the wrong things. I even see people around me do it everyday. Yet i keep feeling disgusted at myself.
Right now im talking to a proffesional to help get through.

I will only comment that some wounds can't be repaired.

Bro none of this shit erases the past or my hatred of myself for being too stupid to understand society and fit in. I want to be normal and fit in. I want a different past and a completely different personality cause this shit is fuxk all

Yeah to all the comments, easier said than done

Psychology got the 95 IQ man

I have been feeling a lot better since I decided to just know that it's not going to happen again and the future is going to be amazing and I just trust in that........

Good luck to all, you don't need me cluttering up the conversation with facts .

Jordan annoys the shit out of me. The guy obviously is not blue collar workers and I think he just rambles on and on about stupid shit that doesn't matter.

This should be a mandatory listen to everybody that serves in the military

Thinking of the past or going by my old neighborhood gives me anxiety and panic but the memories are all good and not bad ones.

He doesn't really explain how to move on...just talks about what we go through and deal with. Tell me something I dont know.

Watched the whole video still don't know how to let go of the past.

Jordan Peterson is fucking all over the place. He’s a genius but listening to him speak is frustrating.

It's good to remember the past to remember not to repeat mistakes or remember that people don't change unless you see prove of it or they apologize n make up for it,,,

this guy makes me feel worse

Listening to this guy stoned, is hilarious. It’s like someone who escaped from an asylum that sits next to you on a bus and starts saying all this and you can’t wait to get off the bus! LoL

I had really had bad childhood. Unforgivable marriage incident. I just dnt blame my husband here its lack of me to say No, feeling insecure, accepting the fault immediately thinking that others will come to know our fight. Trying to smile even when my husband showed really bad face n wanted to cry inside. Trying to please everyone for no reason.

My mother in law n sister inlaw taking granted to talk what they want. Though it was not directly on my face they made me feel week with thier back biting , back talk n taunt. Really in very bad face of my life just wanted to discovery me find real me , who would love unconditionally to myself , funding real me to feel complete myself. I lost real me while trying to correct or accept which is not mine. Hope jordan sir will help with my mission.

INSTEAD OF BEING STUCK IN THE PAST WHY DON'T SOMEONE TRY AND MOVE ON GET THE MESSAGE SOMEONE FROM THE PAST DOESN'T WANT YOU IT'S OVER

I'm stuck in happy times of the past. It's so potent and I know it's illogical. Everyone has moved on. The entire massive group of friends I had has moved on, and yet I'm stuck longing for us all to be together again.

I'm on my own path of forging myself right now to let go of the past it's the hardest thing I've done in my life but just saying that takes the edge off my anxiety, depression ain't shit but overthinking, paranoia and extreme anxiety are what's destroying me

Not so much worrying about the past mistake its about if/when it gets put on the internet and it starts to ruin life

We’re not obligated to be who we were yesterday

24 months completed today! Still fighting with my own brain! To digest the fact that she left!

One of the reason people stuck in the past is because there were people who loved them back then.😢

Im 20 and two years ago I was a victim of sexual violences. As if it wasn’t traumatic and awful enough, my ex (boyfriend who broke up with me and wanted to stay friends) literally humiliated me when he learned about it. He made me feel as a « slutty girl who looked for it and who’s rushing into life ». Honestly his reaction and jealousy made me feel the worst I’ve ever felt in my whole life. I’ve never been this hurt in my life. After that he just left me as if nothing happened.

I then suffered from ptsd flashbacks, insomnia, extreme vigilance, fear all the time to be raped again, fear of men, lost of self confidence, cries all the time (like really there’s wasn’t a day without me crying), suicidal thoughts, feeling of guilt and feeling dirty, was part of my daily life. It was unbearable. I had to deal with my trauma + the victim blaming, betrayal, of someone I really really trusted and love.

That was really hard in the beginning. I’ve been to a therapist for more than a year. I did a lot of EMDR (a psychotherapy method to help you deal with trauma) sessions and psychotherapy where I talk and listen to my therapist’s advice. That’s what saved me. Also my faith and my will to survive all this.

I was 18/19 at the time, and now, I just tuned 20. Even if I’ve realised a lot of improvements in my mental health and life. I am still a little stuck in the past. I still feel anger and sadness whenever I think about it. It ruins some of my days, my energy and everything.
My ex apologised to me after that, but with all the good will I have, I can’t forgive him. I can’t forget and I know I never will. But I wanna forgive him, for me first. I can’t help but hate all the men who hurted me. My heart is full of anger, sadness and pain, a feeling of injustice, regret on all my bad choices,…. I live too much in the past.

I have an amazing family, amazing friends and an amazing new boyfriend. But I can’t even fully live happily with my mind who’s always running in the past and reviving those feelings.

That’s why I was looking for help to improve myself even more and to be stronger. I wanna Keane how to be active and survivor and not « victim ». It’s hard but I know I will. This video actually helped me A LOT ❤ thank you very much. And I wish everybody who’s struggling to learn how to move on and live a happy life.

The past is imagined.

I can’t forget what happend in 2017 it’s eating my brain😢 it has ruined my relationship and I hate those people that this to me and I can’t stop being angry

Hes too damned convoluted!!!! Get to the point!!! A multi-layered example????? Oh please.

Not into thief liar Jordan neither

It's mostly about peoples that played me easily that constantly making me so angry

I wont lie, im lost at what he said i felt like it was alot of rambling haha

Wow Jordan knows so much, its almost like he doesnt know anything at all

Ugh I hate this for me. I’ve been living in my past and don’t know how to move forward. I even manifest the negative energy everywhere, relationships, jobs, situations smh I just don’t know what to do or where to even start. I feel trapped but I do want to get out of it, really bad. 😏 he is spot on man. I just want peace and to be humble…

Well if your stuck in the past watching videos about being stuck in the past, start by cutting out the videos on being stuck in the past.

Dang it I’m watching a 2 year old video.

I experienced a TBI when I was 5 back in 1998 due to a sledding accident. It literally feels like my emotions got put under arrested development because all my passions and interests remain the same and it's impossible to create new ones unless it's for a girl thanks to hormones.

"What to do if your stuck in the past?"
You move forward.
The end.

Ty4that

Some things from past you can't let go.

Maybe my listening comprehension competency is trash, but where was the part on, 'what to do'?

EMDR therapy ❤

"you can't fight back when you're 5" Lord knows i tried.