Crazy MIL Wanna Steal My Baby From Me and Trying To Ruin Our Marriage But It Backfired On Her

MiL is a raging, toxic narcissist.

Karen definitely sounds like she has bpd so manipulative holy shit

Come on honey open your eyes he is a mommas boy he is never going to leave her or set boundaries

Narcissistic parents text like 13-year-old girls after their crush leaves them on "seen". That's not dementia, that's just them being full-blown drama empresses.

Your boyfriends mom is crazy…. She needs therapy…. She is obsessed with your baby she just wants her son and grandson…..you need to cut her off …. Tell her no unsupervised visits and that’s final and since your not married they have no rights to stop you from leaving without your child

I am so happy by bf and I both have good, but distant, relationships with our parents. I live closer to mine right now, but they're still an hour away, and I see/talk to them once a month if that. Sometimes we forget to catch up and it's 4 monthslater. I'm always welcome, and they adore my SO, but we all have lives and don't have time for... What do people even do seeing their moms that often? Watch baking shows? Fold laundry? I got my own laundry to fold in my own time, thanks

is there an uodate

She's a gaslighting manipulator.

General comment: IMO it is always a good idea when setting boundaries and going over birth plans to do it together because it makes it clear that you and SO are on the same page and are a team. This helps to prevent divide and conquer tactics and triangulation. Also, if further negotiation or conversation from the ILs or parents is requested it should only happen when both of you are present.

I would just tell my husband i dont want to hear him complain anymore about his mother. I say ive given him many solutions he refuses, and Id also tell him our marriage is in danger. Id also behonest and let him know I didn't want to say it but i'm saying it now. it's either your mother or wife and child. Until you decide im going to stay with (insert friend or relative name here) I think but making him see what it would be like if he was alone his wife and kid out of sight and his mother nagging without anyone to vent it out to He may finally realized that o.p was right and finally cut the woman out....if not, well o.p you and the child are better off without and insane mil and a husband who does very little to fix the problem.

I find it weird how easily children can put their parents aside. I don’t see anything that would warrant going ‘no contact’ with his mom yet. Hard boundaries are all that is needed.

This relationship is enmeshment that woman thinks her son is her man which is very unhealthy. Instead of seeing him as her offspring she feels he is her companion and sees the gf as competition! She is manipulative and controlling! This is the kind of crazy Karen who will try to delete op so she can have ops baby a to herself ! Op and bf need to pack up and leave the state ! That broad is a menace and should be watched closely!

I had to think long and hard about my relationship with my in lawa. They were very abusive. I decided not to let them abuse me. That's when I went home with my son.

One no ... and two I feel sorry to the poor guy who put his D in this crazy old bat ... also op arm your self get cameras and have evidence on hand in case she escalate and we seen it escalate to a point were cops were called and mom/dad was arrested

I would not ask hubby to choose but subtly help him to make the choice. Make it clear to him that as far as you are concerned, he can go see his mom as often as he likes but he cannot take the baby to her. If she wants to see LO she must come to your house and let it be known, if she dares to treat you with less than respect, she will be shown the door. You don't trash momma and then get access to the baby. I know that he has refused therapy but why don't you get him a book on enmeshment and give it to him merely asking if he can relate to anything in the book. Then give him some space. I think your relationship is salvageable, but it is going to take time. patience and boundaries. The firmer your boundaries the more deranged your MIL will become and the sooner he will see the light. The thing with your MIL is all about control. You are a very real threat to her control of her son who is finally beginning to cut the umbilical cord and inevitability now that he has a son in his life. His interests will be less focused on her and more focused on his own family and that is what terrifies her. She has to realize by know that her fantasy of raising LO with her son is just that a fantasy because you are far too formidable to surrender your son to her. She is a good teacher in a way because someday you will be in her shoes when your son takes a wife so remember these lessons and decide what type of MIL you will be.

Y'all should see a movie called HUSH. This ish is just like this. SMH

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