Real mother's boy. Disloyalty bind. Parent enmenshment. Covert incest. Golden child.

I was the partner of two of these mothers. I was used for sex and she would go home to her boys 25 and 30....Horrible

We need to talk about this more so that people will understand and not be so hateful about this.

Brilliant

Thank you Eleni <3 x

Yup, It's very clear to me why I attracted and stayed with the Cluster B Chicks that was with over the last 30 years. Wow.
Un F*cking Believable. Smdh

Love your work Elani.
Omg I'm getting sick to my stomach all the shit that bubbling up to the surface from being around a Narcissistic Mother.

Is there a video were you go over innaproperate touching ect during these kind of abusive relationships

This is REAL, why is it not recognised. Married to an emotionally vacant man. His mother rang every day throughout the marriage, made his packed lunches, asked what I’d given him for his tea, purchased his clothes and shoes, doted on his perceived talents and abilities, claimed that his name was fit for a Prince like the Prince to the Royal family, admired his physique and lovely legs...the list is endless.
He said his mother came first at a time when his abuse was increasing towards me and our son.
Only now am I aware of narcissism and this emotional incest scenario that I believe to be what I was witnessing.
I totally misread it as a loving family dynamic.
30 years later I’m divorcing him

Your mil was a nasty piece of work. She didn’t have narcissistic tendencies she was a full blown narcissist with no empathy. I have always wondered why these men or child or whatever they are 😝 get married. I think you cleared it up when you said they use their partners to express the rage they feel for these demented b......ches. I think that’s why they get married but they always have a hidden agenda my spouse was he needed a green card and yes he sponsored his parents and scapegoat brother as soon as he was able to after marrying me.

Spot on

@Eleni

Can the trauma bond and disloyalty bind be broken after her death?

His mom showed up on my birthday and I was really sad I wanted just a night with him. We ended up fighting because I didn’t want to be a threesome at dinner they ended up going without me and staying at a hotel together
Bet my life they cuddled in the same bed

Love your presentation style..feels like I’m having a talk with a friend. Sending thoughts on your experience. I know exactly how you feel. Going this presently. Which s why I can’t bring myself to having children in this relationship cuz I can spare them the burden at least..

Thanks for this video! Had given me more clarity

Thank you , this is Very helpful and eye opening

This is soooo spot on! I see it playing out with a man I like but know I would only be hurt if I started a relationship with him.
It is so weird and twisted watching them and for a long time I couldn’t put words to what I was witnessing but knowing this is actually “a psychological thing and is real”.
Thank you for all the conformation. 🙏🏼

In my opinion meditation helps the journey in healing and truely finding the self. Let me know how u get on Morag, sending u much love xxx

I sometimes meditate, but I need to do it more regularly. I will look into it with Lisa. Thanks