Jordan Peterson: Fixing relationships

Lame life vs top success

Mind blowing

After 6 years of marriage, I was about to get a divorce. What's the reason? My husband was not happy. I convinced him to give it one last try. But didn't know of any miracles that might change his mind. Also, we played couple question games to help sort things out. I think the game's name was Lovify. Where we had to guess each other's expectations. It did helped us understand each other better. I hope we don't seperate 💗

That’s what you want you wanna be free, EHHHHHH??

Great stuff, needs a lotta digesting. 🧠

The juxtaposition of these two pieces of advice is very ill thought 😄 Why am I not surprised? Your bloody ‘scriptures’ condemn whoring wives (like humankind) to death, whilst at the same time, have your ‘god’ forgiving. No. No real god would forgive that.

And no, nobody should stay in a relationship that is genuinely abusive.

I never have a family what does that mean 😂

I can’t even pay rent and buy food

Nobody trust me am a con

Am not looking 4 love and looking to clean the mess all these Rats make in the streets 😂

I don’t have kids I need to live in a island I don’t have money or clothes 4 the mainland Palauans are just bad luck to be with they sucking me dry

Fux just leave ……

It is also not healthy to stay with an individual who betrays, lies, cheats, has sexual addictions, and is abusive mentally, physically, financially, verbally, sexually, psychologically, who refuses to take accountability for their OWN behavior and refuses to get the help they need IN ORDER for anything to be "fixed" or reconciled. No way could you or should you stay in such a dangerous, unstable, unhealthy toxic environment.

I don't wanna be free. I wanna be enslaved into one relationship for the rest of my life. If you've ever seen me cry at the thought of losing you, that should give some certainty shouldn't it? Stop second guessing. You f*ck up, I fuck up, so what.

"Until you're old and grey"

OK, how do we fix it. I'm tired of opening myself up just to be let down. I'm not a finished product but, at least I know where I wanna go and what I wanna do.

Communicating like this is flawed. If said "I want to marry you" many people would get excited, but what about you? Are you confident enough to feel I'm talking directly to YOU, and not some other "you".

The only way to fix this is my personal development. The faster I come up, the sooner we can be more direct with each other. Then and only then will anything be able to be fixed.

The only people who can fix a relationship are the 2 involved. No outsider can help. These people are a waste of time and money

You can always adopt. It’s the responsible thing to do.

Jordan that’s not true plenty of women theese days have kids well into mid 40’s

Money resolved all relationships issues in a practical life.

Jordan Peterson is a foolish windbag

In the beginning of the relationship I didn’t know how to love and definitely did not deserve her but after 15 years in a committed relationship she definitely did not deserve me. I learned how to love and became better, she changed, lost her values and became unrecognizable.

Happily separated and committed to my dog. 😊

I pray in Jesus name that kids grow up in a healthy household. I wasn't so lucky.

So my ex sent me this after he cheated and made a fucking child!! And hid it for 3 years. Um... what?!?

If you can make Career out of shopping 🛍️ I know a lot of women that could do that 80 to 90 hours a week

Oh im single me not my childen are liars neuther

I solved this problem. Showed her the door.
Most humans should not have kids.

I prefer this JP to the modern one that seems more motivated to scare and sell himself.

Regardless of sexual orientation I wish people stuck together. It seems like people don’t really want to try in relationships, as a gay man this problem is worse.

I could have used this 2 years ago. I laid everything on my work and sacrificed everything else. I definitely regret this.

You get desensitised to someone threatening to leave the whole time... You get to a point where you don't care if they leave. But they won't.

The archtypal father: Dr Peterson.

This man saved me from suicide today

Notice men don't leave as often as the women. The data shows men stay in relationships far longer at large numbers after/when they are unhappy compared to the women.
Between feminism women's lib selfishness & immaturity waaaayyyyy too many people say quit. The data says women cheat not that far behind men, yet they all use cheating as the most offensive form of betrayal. Cheating is not that bad compared to rap, molestation (child or otherwise) constant abuse etc. But to leave whenever your unhappy or because the male does not make enough money is bull sht. Why even get involved.

So many people come onto these past and say my ex this my ex that but few realize and have the intuition to say well I could have done this better etc.

This is a nice class just because it have a lot of speculation, facts and evidence based data. It’s not boring, but it’s the reason why human behaviour is hard to study, hampered by experimental freedom. Fuk I wish I have chosen to study human behaviour.

This has nothing to do with fixing relationships. It was very scattered.

Great lesson. Thanks. 😉👍❤

We ALL pay the price one way or another.

Can rebuild if both people put in the effort to make it work. Or else it is just waste of time.

Thank you jordan

So funny how much shit he gets from feminists, when he talks about women with such reverence and compassion. Yet to hear him put women down and put men on a pedestal. Seems like people just don't like the idea that he would talk about men's issues whatsoever.

He should've stuck to talking about these things instead of becoming so grossly transphobic, what a waste.

Marriage sounds like mutually exclusive codependence

Always love ❤️ listening to you Jordan. I needed all your lessons when my mom died. I was 21. I am 64 now and operate in a different space because of all of your teachings and it’s taken me that long but I’m so grateful for all your tools. Just can’t thank you enough back then I lived in survival mode for most of my life. How sad.

Whole lot of nothing

I was married 38 years, then divorced her for cheating during the 38 years. She wanted the sex in the city lifestyle. I found a great new partner I am so much happier.

I'm sure I'll get flak for this but as an agnostic person this is the reason why I still believe in marriage. I hope we mostly all come to this conclusion and didn't really just realize it by Mr. Peterson.

Without a doubt I get this now in my life. My and my current ex just have had problems but at the same time I really understand why taking that next step is the next step. It has to be that meaningful.

I've lied to my wife about stupid shit for 10 years. We've essentially reached an empasse. I don't want to loose her. how can i fix myself?