NonViolent Communication by Marshal Rosenberg : Animated Book Summary

After seeing this, my life has changed forever. Thank you. I will no longer beat my child when he doesn't do his homework.

I feel drained since you do not pay attention to my feedback. I would like it, if you would give me a chance and consider it to solve the problem.

The music is so distracting 😭

I work in a school where this is tge mainstream idea.
We have four openings at the moment. Our kids are out of control :) hitting kicking spitting etcbis everyday.

Good luck for the practicioners

I have a need for accuracy and the truth.

I noticed that the producers left the "fun" out of "fundamental".

I would enjoy seeing this corrected.

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The first step towards a life of non-violence is moving towards a vegan lifestyle, when and wherever we are able to.

I wish I knew this book earlier 😭 the situation of my relationship would it better. 😭😭😭 i'm thrilled I need to self improve myself.

I didn't like the depiction of men with square faces.

Can you provide Hindi subtitles for majority of Indians

"Focus on your own needs instead of what is wrong with others." LOVE THIS.

Non-violent communication works only among good people, right?

This was intense

I feel undervalued as more characters of color are not used.

:P

It would be nice if people would admit that their trauma is making it so we have to use nonviolent communication. If people would admit that the words I use make them feel bad is actually a reflection of their own feelings of themselves then we could just speak without editing our words how we should. I agree for dealing with people with trauma you should use nonviolent communication however the goal is to fortify people for the world and the world does not use non-violent communication and never will it do so. Sometimes when you protect somebody from something you're actually weakening them. Much love and God bless

Upon discovering this practice, I (personally) recognized the tremendous value it offered and attempted to share the resource with many "friends" and associates. Sadly though, only one person has ever been receptive to or even briefly engaged with or explored the concept or content (and I'm thankful, that one person engaged completely). It saddens me, though that so few people are willing or interested enough to invest any time or effort into truly engaging with those they identify as friend or family, and moreso, how little (if any) cause is needed to inspire their devaluing, abandoning and dismissal of people who were so recently dubbed "best" friends, lovers, life-partners, etc. How when it all boils down, blood isn't any thicker than water, cause it was ultimately all just hot air to them. Whether by way of indifference, egotism or narcissism . . . communication of any nature and "relations" abroad were, are and always will be null and void when compared or contending with the worldly temptations that overwhelm and dominate the "masses." Whichis the ultimate danger and impediment to humanity ever ascending to its so-called "potential" or ever establishing a cooperative, cohesive, "optimally safe" or progressive society or presence in relation to our world, one another, or even the animals/"pets" so many pretend to hold in such high regard. That beautiful vision is just another extreme/ideal that will inevitably flounder in the wake of the bleak reality and fate that our numerous faults and frailties continue to exclusively afford "our kind" and everything unfortunate enough to suffer our untamed influence.

I felt uneasy with an AI-generated VO asking/instructing me about feelings ; /🤨

Bart can be on time in the first place

Brainwashing done by a Rosenberg... Must be Susan Rosenberg's relative. They are part of the George Soros's agenda. Sorry, this is pure brainwashing.

I think this is the right way to communicate although not everyone has empathy. If you're dealing with a toxic or narcissistic person it really doesnt matter how you express your feelings. I think it's important to keep this in mind to avoid unnecessary self blame.

I feel like the most important concept of NVC is the ability to not only speak the language but be able to translate everyone else’s language so you yourself hear it as NVC as well.

"I feel angry because you are late", this is an example of violent communication! You never say "I because you"! It's always "I because I" or "you because you". The sentence implies that you are feeling angry because of someone else, and not because of your own unmet needs. A Nonviolent way to put it would be: "I feel angry because I have a need to start the meeting on time."

NVC doesn't take into account personality disorders or cluster B people which are the actual root of the problem. Psychopaths have different brains. This won't help against intraspecies predators. The fundamental axiom of NVC is that all humans want to empathize (or even have empathy) is just actually factually incorrect

This video does a much better job than the sprouts video on the same topic and of the same length

can you correct the typo in the beginning... fudamental

While I think that NVC is advantageous in relationships where respect already exists, I feel like it's probably not helpful with certain personality types such as those that exhibit strong traits of narcissism or sociopathy that lack compassion. What motivates types like that to care about other people's feelings and needs? Virtually nothing unless it suits them somehow. So NVC is helpful in many situations but certainly not all.

I have the book and have invested a good chunk of time & energy trying to understand the seemingly simple and straightforward technique.

Thank you for summarizing -- as well as clarifying and simplifying! That said, without being an NVC expert, i share a similar impression as that reflected in several of the comments to this same video -- and suggest it might be worth reviewing & refining the original video.... this is an important subject!

Gracias, danke, obrigado.

Wow! Amazing and very helpful! Thank you for sharing.

Great and way to make the world a wonderful place to be

Actually, M.Rosenberg says we need not mention others’ actions (in any case, no judgements such as “you are late”!) when expressing our needs: compare “I feel sad/angry because I’m needing…” vs. “I feel sad/angry because you…”

Feel... Because... Need...

Great video

Marshall* haha

Thank you!

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Words are not equal to violence. Violence is when you kick someone in the head and not saying you’re going to kick someone in the head. And pronouns are bullshit. This concept makes people mentally weak and not able to deal with the real world so they hide away sheltered. The world is going to offend you so get use to it you humorless weaklings.

Thx

At first glance it seems compelling to learn this techniques of speaking, but after years I've learned that non-violent language can even be used (and has been used) by narcissists and manipulators.

The person reading this comment: I wish you great success, love, health, and happiness! ❤️ 😀😘😍😆

Practicing non-violent communication is understandably difficult. This especially true when you have multiple desired outcomes in a situation and two or more of them are in conflict. This is why it is important to think clearly about what you want to accomplish before speaking. Unfortunately, natural selection has not favored careful analysis as a precursor to action.

good presentation on this subject

this just sounds like "mindfulness" with more steps.

Thank you. Yes I feel angry because was the only section that felt like a blame statement. It can just be I feel angry. Then go to I need....then would you be open to being on time? Or can we commit to all being on time?

Very helpful in summerizing these vast and beautiful concepts to share concisely with others who may not have knowledge of the topic

Thanks I understand it better now

I said to my boss, "I am very angry that you're not on time for the meeting".