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You're a good momma
ОтветитьI have hard floors all over my house with rugs as its easier to clean , My daughter is 21 and still makes a mess .
ОтветитьGet someone to clean your house. This change my life when I became a first time mom. I have a one year old. Sometimes we need help. Change my life. Every week I have someone clean my home. I have a reset every week
ОтветитьOh babe, I’m a daycare worker, people would be surprised how fast they can destroy the place. All day I run around cleaning after them and staying on top of them cleaning up. Not everyone has time for that when it’s not their main job. Kids will grow and they will learn. Just keep doing your best mama!
ОтветитьI shared room with my sibling and everytime i see kid's messes i swear i get ptsd
ОтветитьWhen I say this Its in no way disrespect! You need to sit down your children and talk to them about the value of money and how important it is to keep your home clean and organized for your mental health. Also to just feel safe and clean with no stress! It looks to me like they dont respect the beautiful things mom buys for them (hince the dresser Im specifically speaking on🤔)! If my child damaged something I worked for, OOH NO SWEETIE, NO, NO NOOO NOT HAPPENING! You have beautiful things that most can't and will never have so treat it special❤ They need to learn this from mommy 1st tho! Have a family meeting, make it a fun time go to dillar genral and pick up a foam or poster board, markers, foitter, stickers, etc and make a family chore board and follow through on it daily so they get into a repetitive routine! Mom you have no idea how much stress this will take off your shoulders just having help and a clean home! I promise you it will start making you feel motivated and energized to do more and more! Remember, what their growing up seeing from mom & dad is eventually what they will mimic for their future with their families. Break that cycle now! Again, this is no shade at all just trying to help I know what your dealing with to well and I am on the outside looking in🤷♀️ What better then to hear my opinion it cant hurt! ! I used to clean my son's room and then do all his wash you know all the motherly duties Im suppose to do. But he got ungrateful and felt intitled for more and more! So when he turned 14yr this past March, I showed him how to do his own wash, cook good food not air fryer and microwave, real home cooked meals😋 I showed my son how to properly clean our home too. When I clean, I deep clean wiping down ceilings, walls,fans, base boards, etc. But I suffer from mental health issues as well and I get lazy and dont want to do anything besides lay in bed but then I get a throat kick back into reality, the show must go on😂🤷♀️🤦♀️
ОтветитьI wish we could post pictures in the comments section like on facebook , i littlerally just went through this myself as well in my sons room. I took pictures for PROOF this time. 😂 Except ill admit i only completed 3 / 4ths of his room and I'll be getting back to the rest later. My home is a work in progress. Pray for me ? Lol & ill be praying for you all as well ❤.
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I thought my 4 boys was bad
ОтветитьYes omg I have 3 girls and I clean there room everday 😢
ОтветитьWow
ОтветитьTry helping her clean it so she can know how to properly clean it like mommy🩵
ОтветитьI am new here 💜
ОтветитьMy kids throw their clean clothes in the dirty basket instead of putting them away, easier for them apparently 🙄😑
ОтветитьAnyone who has kids knows this how kids tear up a room. They’re too young to understand what a cleaning routine is but they can learn small ways to contribute. Hiring a cleaner might help, it’s not as expensive as you think
ОтветитьWhen you cleaning the ones that are old enough need to be right there learning. The reason why they do their room like that is because they know you’re gonna come behind them and clean it. Between the age of 7-9 I knew how to make up my bed and keep my room clean.
ОтветитьWow, I appreciate you
ОтветитьSometimes, we simply need help. And I mean (WE). Me included. Stop trying to do it all alone.
ОтветитьIt isn’t about how I want it clean when my daughters had their own space. I did it to teach them responsibility. I never expected them to clean it how I would.
ОтветитьI like the names you chose for them
ОтветитьThis was me yesterday
ОтветитьKids are soooo untidy!!!! I closed my boys bedroom door for two weeks over the Christmas holidays and nearly cried when I had to tackle it…..it’s the worst when you spend hours making it beautiful for them to destroy it again in a few days.
ОтветитьBriana i ran across your videos and you mentioned why you started posting videos. For all of the working and single mom. If you all want to make a 2nd stream of income which can become a Soloincome.
ОтветитьMy kids room would get just like that. So I relate to you . One day I was just done so I went in the and sorted all the toys in boxes took them out of the room. I only allowed a small box of toys in room. I rotated them every month. I also downsized their clothes to a 10 articles of clothing and1 pair of tennis shoes, 1 pair of sandals and 1 pair of slippers. Once they grow out of slippers I no longer bought them cause they never used them and 1 jacket. They grow out of the clothes so fast anyway : once the clothes didn’t fit I bought more but took out the ones that didn’t fit immediately. I wish you luck
ОтветитьI'm so sorry but your kids know you are going to do this everyday...just in a new room. If you keep doing this, it just too much. Sometimes, we are creating our own world. When do you rest? May God grant you wisdom on how to have a more collective, peaceful and restful opportunity. I saw this video and became more grateful!
ОтветитьSis, I feel your pain. Have you tried cleaning the room with your daughters helping you? I agree with you regarding getting them to do their own laundry. That should help them take responsibility for keeping their own tidy room!
ОтветитьNew here. Girl you have to start NOW, making rules for your home. I have 3 children all close in age (8 year old girl - 6 - 6 boy/girl twins) and I taught them from toddlers to pick up behind themselves. We ONLY eat at the kitchen table. Doing just that will stop the crumbs and those smells in the bedrooms. If we are playing, we don’t move on to the next activity until we tidy up. Ex: playing with dolls, then 5 minutes later they want to do water paints. Sure! But we pick up dolls first and put them in the “doll bin”. make them help with daily chores. I promise it will make them think twice about being messy. Explain that they will have more fun time if they pick up behind themselves and not have to spend half a Saturday cleaning!!! 💖 best of luck
ОтветитьI follow you from Kenya. I admire you girl.
ОтветитьMy cousin name her girls the same names hahahaha
ОтветитьOmggg! I just subscribed because of this video. You popped up in my feed and I can definitely relate to a couple of things in this video ❤🎉
Ответитьyou could do good natural dirt vacuuming cleaning videos!
ОтветитьWow l love the room my room is dirty but l clean it wow your the real mom❤
ОтветитьGreat job, MOM! And my daughter has that bed too is super cool it’s in my living room
ОтветитьTHANK YOU THIS IS REAL LIFE - NEROSPICY MOM AND WORKING ON MY OWN BUISNESS
ОтветитьWhere did you get her name thing from on the wall that's super cute
ОтветитьGod bless you, I remember going through this a Mother and a wife cooking, cleaning I felt like I was on a hamster wheel. But then I turn 50 and told them I am done, I am no longer killing myself for anyone. In your case you have babies so be strong mama God got you.
ОтветитьThe name signs? Can you send the link or name? 😊
ОтветитьI can relate.
ОтветитьBabe u are not alone. There was a time in my life when my kid’s room would be like this often. Now my kids are grown but suffer from mental health problems and sometimes her room will get like this now as an adult😢 we are all humans going through very real experiences, so be kind to yourself and each-other.
Edit: I still have to take apart my vacuum almost every other time I use it 😖
Make them clean it up. You can't wait until they get up in age to train them. Start when they are able to take it out to play with it but don't have the strength to put it back. Yeah that part 😢
ОтветитьTake EVERYTHING out of it. And watch them decide to get it together
ОтветитьI just found your video randomly, and let me tell you, I can definitely relate. My daughter's room was always messy to and gross. Somehow, food was always hidden in some corners! This really shows the truth about motherhood and working moms. I appreciate this honesty and wish you all the well-being and love. 😊❤
ОтветитьThey should be helping and they need to respect their stuff😢
ОтветитьYou are so right but my daughter she’s 10 and she knows how to clean her room but my seven-year-old. He does not clean his room so I clean the room sometimes you’re totally right.
ОтветитьYes lol I told my boys I’m about to show y’all how to wash y’all own clothes that’s gone be part of yhey chores . Ima print out a template on what and how to wash
ОтветитьSomething stinks in here!!🗣️ its you 😂🤣 the kids just say anything ❣️❣️ hang in there they grow up so fast
Ответить😩😔🙏🏾 bless ur heart sis
ОтветитьThey needed to help to show them how to clean when they get older
ОтветитьYour kids are RIDICULOUSLY adorable btw
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