Should You Be Happy With Yourself Before Dating? Ask A Black Therapist | Healthy Her

James 5:13
Is any among you afflicted? let him pray. Is any merry? let him sing psalms.

whats up with this "women of color" code shit, it use to be about black women, black women the most disrespected but the most COPIED, now yall on some help everybody shit and yall still aint respected in the usa let alone the world....what a mess what a mess

I will say w/ men & women you do need to be happy in order to date & commit to someone. If you're not happy you are bringing that negative energy into a new partnership in which will bring out your insecurities on some type of level. Whether it's physically, emotionally, spiritually or career wise.

I gave this a thumb’s up before I even watched it. Loved the title!! And after watching his was 100% truth!

The worst thing is generally when we join relationships as 2 halves looking for fullfillment from our potential spouse. Which is totally wrong and frankly waaaaaaaaaay to much pressure to put on someone else.

I need details on that pin though lol

Let me tell all of y'all another thing . Rather, here is a question.

If YOU AREN'T HAPPY WITH YOURSELF, YOU FIGURED you're happy or GOING TO BE HAPPY W/someone else? You're figuring you can or the next person can MAKE YOU HAPPY? ??

If you don't feel you are WORTHY of dating yourself, how/why should the next man/woman feel about dating you? If you don't enjoy your own company, who else is supposed to? Shiiiiiiiit.....i likes being by myself. I likes being AROUND MY OWN SELF 😀😎😘👍🏾💙💚💛💜🖤💟❤

I'm newly divorced and this dating thing has me terrified. Hadn't done it since 2005. Where is the best place to meet guys? 35 & up

No you should hate yourself before dating. Dumbass questions

"I feel like I don't need a man, but I want to date."
WAIT WHAT??????

SINGING....Date yourself first!!!

True. I love myself too much to just put up with anything and anyone.

What type of Question is this?

Of course, one should be....NEEDS TO BE...happy with oneself prior to embarking on any quest for a romantic relationship.