How To Get Him To REGRET EVERYTHING And Come Running Back ASAP (In-Depth Guide)

I realized he was ending things with me in an ambiguous way so he could keep me as a back up. He knew what he was doing. I sent him one last message saying that I really thought we could have had something and that I hope he finds someone someday that he thinks is not worth that type of behavior anymore. Then I deleted him from socials. I door slam people who do me wrong. I want him back but I also know we aren't compatible long term. Glad we never had sex.

I had to download this video because it was such great advice, but also because it was delivered so hilariously!😂😂😂

Thank you so muchhh

Not like a bird that you let go and teach to fly 😂😂❤
Great content, Elliot 😊 Thank you for all of your posts. When you said that it was my job to let him go as a high value woman, I felt so encouraged and responsible for my self respect. It just clicked. Thnx

Nice voice BTW 😉

Elliott……..Shave everything off except the mustache. I’m sure you’d look so hot in a stache

How long does it take if you dated really short term 😅 like dated for only a month . Our connection was intense though :( he gave me signs he was the type to self sabotage a good thing

I'm here out of sheer curiosity 👀

I am married 18 years but love watching your videos... I have been helping my single with your advise. Good stuff.

So I did no contact for 2 months deleted him from everything only to come back and say changed ready commitment to move in after 2 1/2 years and then a week later out of no where to change his mind, like wtf I pissed off

I love you Elliot thank youuuuu 😩🙏🏼

Agreed. The problem is, men will always go for the easier options. And there are plenty. They don’t wanna put effort in.

and what if you hurt his ego by saying he isnt enough a man? how to react after that, it would be nice if you could explain this situation 🤭🤗🤗

Ha, my ex’s brother popped up as someone I may know on FB but we’ve never met, I only spoke to him once nearly a year ago and had deleted his number from my contacts months ago. I mentioned it to my ex and he was like REALLY!? I have a feeling he looked me up from his bro’s page. We’re still speaking but I’m no longer attempting to talk about a relationship. No point, he’s on his hustle, that’s the reason he walked, when things got real and a potential baby was possible. He knew he had to level up. He’s a good person, but handled ending things so immaturely. Could’ve just said I’m not financially ready for kids right now. He’s the one to point out a random kid saying that’s what our biracial daughter would look like on date 2!! Just ridiculous.

I f’d up. He knew he had me. I was the idiot for letting him think that. I wasn’t high value. I was insecure, thinking I couldn’t find anyone else. I gave him everything. Literally and figuratively. On and off for two years. Everything was “fine” so I thought, and then he ghosted me. Right when I was about to visit him. I feel so hurt. I’m angry at him and at myself but I only have myself to blame.😢

Do people actually believe this?

I like the cartoon guy on the screen and the diagrams your our guy elliot

Ahhh little bit closer u to funny😂😅

Elliot, I get crazy 5 days before my period, so I after 3 weeks of seeing him, I brokeup with him, He told me He really liked me and didn't want the break up, I blocked him. Then unblocked next day, now he won't talk to me, what do I do??

You’re whack AF! Use your time wisely and stop feeding BS to get money. Find a real job dude!

I went back just told him I’m not a break up make up girl and we had loads of fun again for 2 months - no nagging - then out of nowhere second dump 🤷‍♀️

If he wants to pull away, he can have the entire galaxy. Meanwhile, I'll just live my awesome life and meet others.

He’s been looking at my socials with fake profiles. Messaged me from a fake profile as soon as I figured out I was talking to him I stopped. This comes after his insignificant text message in which I ignored. I never got the begging paragraph. Time to move on

Amazing Elliot! Thank you so much 🩷

How does this work if you have to see them ie work, studying a 5 year degree together how can that work

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So happy to find your videos again! You helped me through my dating problems 4 years ago before I met my latest boyfriend. Now that I’m single again, I’m ready to learn again.

I can't believe the amount of guys that rock back up from upto 3years later they come back what's going on there pop up with a friends request again is it I am still attractive or what?

I bought your guides even though I am in a relationship now but still relevant in some ways.

This is your best video. You stayed on topic. You didn’t ramble. your message was delivered and in a predictable way according to your chapters. This is how you do it. Keep it up please! I like seeing you grow and be successful.

I dunno Elliot. You’re the best out there and all but for some reason guys came out of the woodwork when we were dating. I told him about each one. No cheating just that so and so reached out. He kept flipping, blaming me. I was sincere 😔 He ended it saying he loves me but I deserved better than his flip outs and wants to stay single and work at himself. He let me go. I do see past 5 mos single is still on his social but seems an avoidant now after altercations. Wonderful guy. It’s been heartbreaking for me 🥺

Thank you Elliot. I will be strong.

This was empowering. Thank you so much!

Basically you're saying don't want him back. Seems like all of this advice can be boiled down to give up, move on, don't take him back. So why even listen to a video regarding getting him to run back to you???

“Mother🌞Nature Wants Me To Be A High Value Woman!!!”, “He Has To BEGGGG!!!”

Damn i've been watching yours and other dating coach videos for years and this video hit me hard about the fwb who i am catching feelings for. And he's been having the power, the larger lens, etc. And up until just now i would never have thought to actually cut him off or block him, but i am actually feeling empowered to do both and for the first time since we been hooking up, I feel better. My self esteem was just rebooted! Mr. Elliot has to be the best coach on here or one of the very best! Thank you sir, you are a true gentlemen while keeping it real at the same time.

Whenever I need sense talked into me, I come here. Thanks for being the voice of wisdom!

I had a guy that I was head over heels for come back to me a year later, and now I want nothing to do with him. It’s such a great feeling!

“Coming back” would be defined as reaching out (simple text) or reaching out with an apology (full paragraph explaining what he did wrong, etc.)? Mine reached out on day 3 with no apology, no contact since, 1 month and counting

After 24 hrs im gone lol

He is with a rebound he met 10 hours after he left. He is not laying in bed alone. They are stuck like glue. Going everywhere and doing everything posting how perfect they are. Puke

Don’t try and bend yourself into a pretzel for a Man who is on the fence or worse keeps leaving
I know Women who met their Man when over weight , plain dressers , over stressed , some are super loud or a bit dull , lacking humour or quirky etc etc
They weren’t working on themselves , they were just being themselves .
They accepted the Man who wanted them , really wanted them . The Man who thought they were great despite her imperfections .
It’s not because You aren’t High Value it’s because You got stuck on a Guy who is emotionally unavailable, thinks He can do better ,not really wanting relationship etc etc
It’s not You , He is just the wrong Man

I think this is one of your best videos.

Damn this is long lolol

LOL - Elliot you are a colourful dude. Thanks for the laughs.

@elliotScottDating can you do a video on dating men who have been divorced, I am a lot of older women '40s onward would appreciate this type of video. A lot of divorcees don't want to go into another serious relationship, where they give their all. A tactic of a lot of people take when dating a divorcee is to take what they can get, and then slowly build something positive in a relationship and then move to living together and then maybe marriage. In your experience and with all your knowledge what is the best route to take when dating a divorcee, please? I am sure I speak for your community when I say a video on this would be most appreciated.

"I don't care if his family is dying, if his dog is dying, if his business is collapsing if he got Covid 15x over. I don't give a shit. If he wants your comfort he needs to knock on the door and BEG him to be back with you." 😆

Really? I haven't found a man who is worth all of this mental and emotional agony...I know my worth so I wish him well..His loss. " My alone feels so good. I'll have you only if you're sweeter than my solitude ". ❤

Took 3 weeks for him to come crawling back etc and I held my ground even when he asked to talk in a respectful conversation and I settled to just friends and nothing more.

Why would I want a man who’s always wondering if I’m the best for him? He will always think that. There. Are. Repercussions. You lost me. I don’t want him.