The BIG SIGNS You Should KEEP TRYING With Him | Matthew Hussey

As a man we are taught how to date by women
1. We don’t communicate a lot because we have experience with how you women act when we do.
2. We don’t like to share our feelings because we have experience of women dropping us or using it against us the minute we do.

What I’ve learned is I have to keep women at a distance and just give them little crumbs if I don’t do that they just take me for granted and disrespect me. It’s amazing how women are so attracted to men who do nothing and don’t pay attention to them. Women just want what they don’t have access to.

Spot on!

Are either you or your brother single? 😋

That football slide at the end of the video was so epic

I'm paying attention now. You were in the blue body!! You even wearing a blue shirt! Hm I think I can hear you saying enough.

How do you know the person is genuinely investing in you and not just love bombing you?

Boom. That hit hard. Such a great summary…and fun dance breaks by Stephen! 💯🙌

I chase them with a whip to get in the corner.

That's OK at the start....what about a change in behaviour months down
the line

If you tell him you’re with someone else and his response is “I really thought you were the one” after three dates just BLOCK HIM NOW

I love u ❤

Initiate. Do the hard work, yourself. Ask the guy out, and risk your feelings like men do. Rejection sucks. Get used to it, and do better

There’s a lot of guys out there tired of doing all the work, just to end up with a nightmare relationship.

Put your big girl panties on. Time to get to work.

Love you

Thanks 🎉

Why am I chasing? Idk. I hate the fuck out of myself.

Um, can you just communicate and ask? Be like So tell me, with how busy you are, are you looking for a friend to talk to or are you genuinely interested? In other words. Like am I'm in the friend zone or what? 😂 I got better shit to do if you're not trying to get to know me and just talking about your problems. No?

Sounds like broad generalities about a large variety of people in, or seeking, relationships from someone who does not have the credentials to do so. Unsubscribed.

u were crying in the first video u made with some chubby guy.

Do you have one about whether we should keep trying with her?

There's this guy I see a lot in social events, so far so good, we talk when we see each other (not texting) and it's been looking to the bright side but he hasn't made a move to go on a date privately
We were at a boat party, we hung out together most part, we danced together and he even joined me to talk on the deck at some point and there's definitely a connection there, after leaving, I texted him an appreciation text and a little compliment and he passed the response test😅 Let's see

i have stop half way what u said about invest in that person and seeing if that person reaction in short sentence while you wrote heaps of stuff...this shit happen to me all the time and laugh about it 2 person who i'm into and seems not interested in me while they into some guy who either Narcs or players..watched abit of your talk in other video about chasing and right moment which i on my mind.

Invest

Love this video❤ So much condensed tips an aspects!

Very clear! Thank you 🙏 Women we need this kind of advices, specially coming from a man ❤

Avoidant people don't have a problem not chasing lol I think I did and maybe still do some mirroring in the beginning so not to seem too eager

One pro tip: just ask. Ask him why he linked up with you in the first place. You'd be amazed at the raw truth you might get in return, and it saves so much time.

Bullshit. Pursuit is not gendered. If you are not willing to pursue, don’t expect to be pursued.

Muscle~ just guessing the brain 💋

Invest in those who invest in you

Do woman protect man no please ya its man nature and should be so everything else is disgusting

Nope. I'm giving up on him hei is still texting trying to talk to me. But I lost interest. He keeps telling me Yes. I still love you!! But I know for sure that my x husband has another person in his life. .. The ghosting continues. . .💬😱

Matthew you are a game changer in my life thank u brother stay safe and wise

I needed to hear this

🙏🏻

Will You See This? There is experienced advice out there saying… that the man’s energy enters into the woman through Her speaking about herself. If he speaks a lot about himself… ie… she has a slew of questions… where she hopes he’ll go into huge detail with his answer… more blue…this winds up weakening the bond. He just becomes more interested in himself. Of course just being open and natural and with healthy esteem would be the way. It’s seems there is validity in what seems an imbalance… that eventually can come to balance. What do you feel/think?

“Am I in the blue?” That one hurt😩

I'm in a situation where the other person does texts but the texts they send are meaningless, alway avoiding the topic of a potential relationship or setting a date to meet up its a long distance, coming up with excuses of being busy when I'm free so I'm at end of my patients & I have not text him back its been one week & im not budging until I start getting the responses I need, otherwise I'm going to allow this to end naturally.

What is your educational background?

Men will text a woman 20 times a day so if you don't get a text he has little value for you.

I think there is an interesting nuance here. The ability to give something back depends on how many resources the person has. If someone is in a tough situation in their life, they may not give back much because of their situation, not because of their attitude to you.
But on the flip side it is important to watch out if the person tries to improve their situation. Like seriously and consistently. Do they make an excuse out of their situation, or they deal with it, they work on themselves.

Your advice and perceptions are astoundingly well thought out, unique and highly valuable. Thank you so much Matthew ❤. I wish you the very, very best!

my "best friend" abandoned and betrayed me.
he truly violently and viciously raped my soul
with what he's done to me.
I am breathless in my grief and in my agony.
he's all I had. now I'm left all alone: to suffer endlessly.

what if we both want to make a move but we're both too scared of the other's reaction ?

If women would only be attracted to good, decent, moral men they would be happier. But they want men with looks, brains, and money, and the latter can get women very easily, so women must compete for them.