SO WHAT YOU'RE A SINGLE MOM| Advice & tips on being a successful, happy single mom| Tres Chic Mama

I have birth single. Was pregnant single . And I'm still singles and I'm a living legend. Lol 🤣

Just thanks!

Nothing wrong with being a single mum or dad. Our society is sick and extremely narrow minded. Some people's job is to try to belittle single parents and hope to normalize that attitude.

First of all thank you for this video. It was very informative and helpful. I was wondering if you can make a video on your different streams of incomes as a single mom and tips on how we can get started?

Holy shit. None of this is helpful. Where are the tips!?

Thank you for this video. You are inspiring. I've been out of my toxic relationship for a lil over a year and I'm a single mom of 3 w/no support. I've found it hard to adjust to the single mom life. This last relationship affected me mentally, emotionally, & physically. I've just started to be able to sleep at night, before I had insomnia. I'm beginning to feel like my old self. I'm thankful that I work in education because it allows me to be hone when the kids are out of school. However, with the price of everything going up, I find that I need to do something else. So, I'm working towards being a virtual assistant & bookkeeper. I think this will be good for me and I would be able to work from home & cut costs. I am focused on my kids now. They will be grown before I know it and I want to enjoy them before they grow up & have their own lives. Thank you again for this video. It was the motivation I needed.

Thank You for having a great conversation with us this morning :)

Looks like I’m doing a good job. My only main stress right now is money and shelter wise. I don’t have support so having a good job is hard. As for shelter God helped me out by leaving my son father house and have my own government housing but I made a mistake letting another man walk into my life so fast and believe everything including promises that I messed up and now I ain’t got a home, living under his roof and stresses me out sooooo much and disrespect me soooo much like, it hurts. I’m working on doing better….at this point I want to own my own home by next year and move to a different state far from all my fake people. But money yo, I need money. I tried looking for work from home but I kinda suck at researching so im struggling big time..
Any tips for me? How did you get to own your own home? My son is 2 and im 28. I need some advices..

YES TIPS ON FINANCES! Please

Please like this if you feel like you want to be happier and healthier woman as a single mom, but struggle mentally. I’m praying for you🤍

First time I’m about to be a mom to my child so excited but scared Cus l never thought I would be a single parent especially this is my first pregnancy 💔life has many ways of you teaching you things will work out for you in the future all l care about now is myself and my baby💕

Keep lying to these women…every year you will get older and less valuable to anyone, your kids will get older and you will die alone because todays society lied to you and told you are bigger and more important than duty to your marriage and family. And you have F’d your kids up for life..congrats! Keep drinking yourself into depression. If its not too late…go to a GOOD marriage councillor and beg your husband back if he hasn’t found a younger, hotter woman with no drama

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I'm a single mom of 2 expecting 1 extra baby in January and freaking out not because I haven't done this before but because I have had a crutch of a support team for 10 years and it's getting to the point where they just can't help me like before and also myself I want more for myself and kids no savings just living pay check to pay check and it's caused a load of anxiety the father and I have been back and forth for years and I'm finally cutting off that toxic unstable relationship but however it's time I get myself in order as well with not saving and being financially unstable it got worst when baby #2 came in but now I'm a single mom of 3 things MUST change I do want to work on that for the sake of me and all my babies and I know I can do it I just need to discipline myself financially your video definitely helped me alot

Thank you so much this is so inspiring

Thank you so much for your advice I so much I'm a single mom of two lovely girls, it has not been easy for me from one problem to another paying their school fees house rent and taking care of them alone I have no one to help me out except God so many people people are advising me to enter into prostitution take care of my children but I refused not because of my self but because of God and now my landlord is about pushing I and my children out of our house I have been crying but I believe my God will make a way for us

This helped me sooo much ❤❤❤❤

Both my parents dead so no childcare

“How many times you have to be a single mother?” is the same question as “How many times you need to get divorced?”

Hello everyone,I am single mum from cambodia ❤

So needed this thanks mama!

Here to stay for the whole video because I'm here for the harshness and encouragement!

Lol back to the streets

"I have harbored some feelings of resentment towards my mom for not choosing a partner who would have been more involved in my life. Even though relations change along the road, aspects like qualities, aspirations, desires, emotional compatibility, are essential foundation when building a relationship, considering the potential impact of a positive influence are important aspect. No trusting your instincts and avoiding those warning signs at the beginning of the relationship, is not an excuse but a sign of your poor judgment. I feel sick when women are not accountable for their action. Thank you for bringing a baby to this world who is going to b neglected and no going to have full protección of a father figured , Like many of my friends had. Stop normalizing single moms life style, and all that BS. that only comes from a selfish point of view.

My husband of 7 years decided to leave me out of the blue. We just had a baby two months ago. I’m devastated. I’m going through a very hard time.

You are not special! Thank you 🙏🏾

I applaud you for taking the time to speak to single parent issues. Wishing you all the best.

ADVICE! MARRY A DECENT MAN! Our prisons are filled with the children of single mothers. Single mothered kids commit crime, drop out of school, are drug addicted , suffer mental illness and SUICIDE at much higher rates than those raised with a father in the home. In fact the children of single fathers have the same POSITIVE DATA as those raised in two parent families. After age 5 kids needs FATHERS more than they need mothers. So spare us your excuses and claiming you're such a great single mother parent. You put your kids behind the 8 Ball of life. And they will suffer for it along with the society that is damaged by them. Your children grow up to KILL US.

TO ANYONE READING THIS ESPECIALLY IF YOU’RE A NEW MOM. Yes you are special. Being a single mom doing it alone requires more of your energy, time and resources. Show yourself grace. Ask for help whenever you need. Talk to people. If you’re working full time don’t be afraid to talk to your manager supervisor etc. explain the challenges youre facing discuss alternatives or solutions if you have to miss work. Let’s be realistic Being a single mom IS Hard but it gets better as they get older and as you adapt. Whenever you can take time for yourself even little things can boost your mood…(take a nap, order your favorite meal, take a long shower, call a friend).

So how I’m gonna get to go to the gym and workout while a toddler running around and killing himself with the weights and machines?? You need to understand that yes some of us really have no money for babysitter and have 0 family around. Yes it a reason I can’t go because I have a crazy toddler! SMH

“Being a single mother is hard, especially when your ex pays for your lazy lifestyle in the form of child support”

Hi I am this girl's daughter and whenever I get older I want to be a I'm tough and smart and I really want to be a single mom so that's why I'm watching you go girl

My daughter is headed full steam in this direction. She’s 22 and I just know she’s going to be a single mom. She won’t heed any warnings. How do I get her to realize she’s going to live a hard life? How do I get her to realize she’ll be raising a disadvantaged child?

Well, never sleep with the wrong ppl. NO sex before marriage or decide to marry the wrong person after dating 6 months. Get your education and a good job. Screw men. You don’t need one. You have a vibrator. Pleeeeeasse. Guezzz. Forget a relationship. But, those that F@&,?ed up. I feel bad for you. But, you did it to yourself.

All girls aged 15 and above should watch this video.

Thank you!!!!!! Ma'am for this it's what I needed to hear this even though I'm a year late

Single Dad here, found this helpful ta

I’m pregnant and the dad said he wants nothing to do with me or the baby and now I don’t know what to do all I know is I want to of course keep the baby and I want her to be healthy but I just don’t know the first thing about being a mom and all I see is videos of couples being parents and everything and I just need a single mom video

Happy that she was able to have the ability to be a single mom and still have “a life” however if you are working full time and don’t have many people that you can rely on to take care of your baby this is sadly not true. I’m struggling just to survive each and everyday. I wish I had the ability to go out and do something/anything for myself but that’s just not reality for some..especially if you live in Austin area. I’m all for being positive but false hope can sometimes be more hurtful. God bless

So the “you are not special” is 100% a harsh way to say it. I get what you mean but honestly we are special. Just our problems aren’t as limiting as we think we are. Our problems are not unique, you’re right. Saying “I can’t” needs to be replaced with “How can I”… I can’t plan a trip with my toddler… or How can I plan a trip with my toddler. Change your expectations to meet that goal. Maybe you can’t do a 12 hour road trip in one stretch but you can do a 12 hour road trip over two or three days. Now your budget expectations and maybe the timing of the trip needs to change but you CAN do it. I like this advice but I can see some people getting offended. But you can do it. You just have to figure out HOW you can do it and manage your expectations.

I’m very curious about your journey and might watch a few videos. I left a toxic relationship in December and my son lives with me in a new state. I stayed in my mom’s tiny back room for a little while and finally we got our own apartment. My goal is to buy a house or condo in the next few years so it seems I’m on the same path as you so it will be so nice to see how you managed it. ❤

Also I’ll add my own best advice: A do nothing day!!! Mine is Saturday. I make pancakes. For lunch and dinner we eat leftovers. I don’t do any chores. None. No dishes no tidying toys. Nothing. We might go see his cousins or go to a park or grandma’s house. We pull a folding foam mattress into the living room and put on a movie in the evening. I don’t stress about a single damn thing. Then on Sunday it’s the laundry and deep clean day. Then we are well rested and set up for the coming work week. It’s been amazingly beneficial. I feel like that whole day to just be with my kid stress free has been the greatest gift I’ve given myself. I understand why some religions have a sabbath or a day of rest. It’s so so nice.

Being a single mother is not a handicap. That's what the point was, but special, yes, yes we are. As women, we are special. We are superheros under all circumstances. We give birth to humans, that in itself is a magical thing that deserves glorification. I do understand it's not a handicap to be a single parent, if anything it's an accomplishment to make it on your own, and your babies will love u for it.

You have 1 child. I have 4 and a single mom. Can someone make a video on that please 🙏 lol

So proud of you being strong and smart 👍

Thank you ❤

I needed this. And i am reminded that my pain is turning into passion.

I definitely put those limiting beliefs on myself, in doing that I was ignoring my power and resilience. It was hard muting out the negative self talk, I'm finally in a place where I can catch myself thinking all these negative thoughts about myself, and stop and introduce compassion and gratitude. Thankful that my son is healthy, happy, and we have food and shelter. It took a lot of time and patience, trusting the process.

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Hello

I love this, and you. Thanks a whole bunch!

I realized I've been complaining a lot. I will change thanks.