What Causes Intimacy Anorexia? | 5 Reasons For Intimacy Anorexia in Your Relationship

Intimacy anoxia = covert narc.

My husband made feel like I have a problem and he doesn't want to sex with me and feel alone and don't feel attractive anymore and it's really hurt 😢

What is the best way to broach this topic with a husband who won't take any responsability for the problems in the marriage and doesn't want the wife to point out any of his issues?

Are those the only causes of the issue? I think my husband has this but i don’t think any of these fit him…

Could I be suffering from this in a new relationship after being in a 10 year abusive narcissistic relationship? I have no desire to be intimate in my new relationship and I used to be the opposite. It wasn’t until I started diving into healing and research in my past relationship, trying to understand why I stayed for so long. Then I found the courage to leave him. A year and half later (now), I am in a new relationship for the for the first time and I am withholding intamacy due to no desire, fear and god knows what else. Then I find myself so angry and criticizing him and complaining all the time. I feel the pressure to perform now and during this self discovery, I came to realize since I first had sex at the age of 12, that I would use sex to intice men because I thought that was the way to keep them from leaving me. Please help cuz I promised myself i would have more respect for my body and I would never again have sex if I felt it was a duty. My past relationships, especially the one I mentioned, Intamacy was non existent no matter how much I begged. Our sexual relations were all about hun and his fantasy of seeing me having sex with another man, which made me extremely uncomfortable but pretended to avoid the punishment of him withholding love. I also recently lost my dad, who was an amazing father. But I was always trying fo make him proud of me because that is when he showed me emotions. What is wrong With me???

I think this happens (also) when one person marries someone who wasn't their "first choice" or someone they aren't attracted to, but is a safe provider choice.

I think ( believe) alot of these problems in marriage or because either one or the other just really don't love wholeheartedly the partner ! I see it in my relationship

Valuable information!

People have a free will I have experienced many people with this refuse to acknowledge or change

Also not all have had childhood trauma

Narcissist is unable to love ! Don’t be a codependent , get out

Thank you for this video but this isn't limited by marriage and romantic relationships many other relationships suffer this