What is the most important influence on child development | Tom Weisner | TEDxUCLA

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Don’t forget preventing mouth breathing!!!!!!!

(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Wee have the tendency to minimize the power of the child wee love to think that the child represents watt wee will grow out of in the process of personal progression the inner child is the disguise for the higher self this is why awakened beings have many childlike qualities in fact the moor awakened someone become the moor they become once again like a child albeit a very wise one

Remember your own childhood.make the effort

I would believe that love, care and discipline is universal.

I didn't hear this and it's crucial talk to the child I don't care where they are from are what you do talk to your kids and listen

I wish that someone shoved that onto the psychotherapists heads - that all the modern psychology and even more so- psychotherapy is based on western societies

well apparently ted talks today are for ppl with 0 knowledge. anything give give them a shock , " wow, I never thought about that" lol.

Knowing what Child abuse is & not doing that.
Knowing what Love is & doing that.

Looking them in the eyes at eye level when your listening to them or talking to them.

Spending quality time, with them & Knowing what that is.

Amazing Ted Talk Thank you for Opening My Eyes. I’m in Early Education College Courses and I’m about Early Education and truly Love it ❤

Parents interfere with their Childrens freewill to make their own choices just because they don't like what makes them happy.

USA HAS THE WORST SCHOOLS NO RESPECT FOR TEACHERS, HIGH CRIME, AND LOTS OF DRUGS.

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Love and truth

So what's the most important influence on child development...?

Did he say anything?

Lies.. love them and speak to them like you yea hung yourself. Don’t harm them or teach them the biggest baddest wins

I really feel for the children of war.

Welcome to my circle time for toddlers&preschools - children learn and have fun at the same time

Interesting, most research comes from 12% of the world's population western educated developed democratic, so it May not be applicable to the developing world which is world 88% of population.

We take a kid from from Iraq and we throw him to a new planet with an alien civilization that is a hundred thousand years more advanced than humanity with teleportation devices and weird hovering technology and telepathic communication abilities and all sorts of crazy stuff, they figured out how to make their bodies immortal. Right so all this crazy stuff that they figured out from the wildest Science-fiction movies. We plop a kid from Iraq into that for a day and then we bring him back. That's a little bit more what it's like to take a psychedelic.

Con·stan·cy

In think his main point is that we need to raise our kids to be more”collectivist” (thinking about others/participating in the community), rather than the W.E.I.R.D cultures’ focus on the “individual”

The environment is the mother, or lack of.

This is a great watch, well done.

Why Adults Should Play

Playing is a very important means for development. When we play, we develop new relationships and connections.

While it is common knowledge that children need to play in order to develop, which is why we buy them games and put a lot of effort into working out the most suitable games for each stage of their development, it is not so clear with us adults. We do not really like to play. Our relations end up quickly deteriorating into each one of us degrading the other, which ends our playing.

As a result, we miss out on a lot of what we can get out of life. We fail to examine all of our options for development as adults, and we thus put a halt to our further development.

We have turned our daily lives into a prison of sorts. That is, we need to look, behave and talk in certain kinds of ways—and only in those certain kinds of ways—otherwise, we will not fit in with others and gain their respect. Without their respect, we get treated in ways that harm us. We suffer from living in such a prison, but it has become so ingrained into our lives that we cannot escape from it.

The essence of our playing as adults should be that we treat each other positively even if we do not feel like it, and to teach others to do the same. Playing in such a way would emulate the higher state of positive connection that nature is developing us toward, and we would thus draw positive forces of connection that dwell in nature into our relations, and start feeling happier, more confident, and that our lives are purpose-driven.

Unconditional love and believe in her/him.

Don't forget to race against white people. Clearly that fixes everything. If you just race on white people you'll some how get secret powers. You'll get smarter, stronger and prostitution.

Proper socialization.. especially through the 'agression' developmental stage.. I think around 4-5.. I loosly quote Jordan Peterson.. the greatest thing you can do for your child is to make them likable by other people. Thumbs up bro. 👍

the first thing I though was love them and then give them a hug

Is there a Spanish version specifically on this one🙏?

He's constantly dancing around and around from foot to foot.

Time to me is the important gift other than the obvious, Love. Love gives the gift of time. Listen to them. Teach them, Play with them. Value them.

Loving your children involves so much more then feelings and affection. Love is giving them your time, your attention, helping them to emotional regulate, teaching them, guiding them, allowing them to develop relationships outside of the home, letting them pursue their interests. Love involves many things

I would give healthy circumstances and positive affirmations that are realistic, not boloney

Ayo I’m view 1,000,000

You have a good channel, thanks for trying on it!

this is the worst ted talk I've ever seen

My fellow!

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