7 Things That Frighten Narcissists To Their Core

Fantastic! I’m taking your course and it’s fantastic. I’m definitely taking my time in the written lessons because I want to dig deep so I never get involved with a narcissist again. I married two of them and am currently separated and have divorce papers for the 2nd. Thank you Mr Grannon! Also, you’re funny so that’s great too! 😊

My only child narcissist, no other human I have known is as mean. I'm still shocked this is an actual pattern that human minds come up with.

Excellent 👌

Interesting that you say that one might look to a narcissist for a sense of significance in their lives.. I find the more you discover and create your own significance or proof of your own value, it creates an immunity to narcissism.

The narcissists in my family are terrified from having to work a REAL job. They can "do" events, party with a purpose, catered meetings, etc. But there is no way they could show up and Work on any type of fixed schedule with expectations and required tasks. So they live off of grant fraud, fake Nonprofit low show or no show paychecks, identity theft, criminal theft, donations and manipulative begging. They have total disdain for people who "have" to work and are jealous of working people's benefits like health insurance and retirement because THEY should have those perks

Reading through the comments I think a lot of people are possibly mistaking narcissism with codependency. I also think even more are disavowing their own contribution to their bad relationships with people, thinking that discarding others is the the right choice when relationships become difficult. I wonder how many are doing it over politics and just not admitting as much? Quite a sad state of affairs these days.

Could you imagine dating this man? Kinda joking

You nailed it bro , I have been watching your channel a couple of years . And you are on point with who and what is happening with a narcissist. I have been marred to a Narcissist for 26 years . And I can say I don’t know what the clear path is for me to recover. It’s like being trapped in jail . They make you a trustee , and let you live in a perimeter that becomes your normal. I’m done with that life style . I need help . To escape this night mare of madness. Thank you for your time and wisdom on these matters . I am interested in your program to leave the abuse and live my life healthy and be able to continue to have a relationship with our kids .. she has started to try to turn the kids and any one else , that will listen to her lies and false narratives of me . I have been Beaten down for so long . Idk how to be free . But I am gonna figure it out . Our and my youngest child . Just turned 18 . So we are all grown atp and the gloves are off so to speak . And it’s just like you say .. I feel like the dog doing wrong things and I’m gonna be in trouble.. I need help 🤦🏻

Nailed it!

My ex-fiance', her narcissist rage had her almost beating a door in to get to me, I was not allowed to have boundaries and they were never respected.

😂 you can attend a course that teaches you how to keep fighting and revenging against a crazy person. Infantile proud coaching 😅

😂 I need to show that I'm better than a nut person.


I believe all these videos are all about infantile people that has been beaten by a mature person. 🎉

Meta communication is useless when youre stupid enough (like me) to get involved with one in a LDR.

I have been no contact for two years. I highly recommend this action.

I coparent with a covert. If I point something out she turns it around “I know I’m a horrible mom” and patronizes me

❤❤I love this....this is so fresh and new

I can not relate with number 2. She studied me and mirrored me. She did not have an incorrect perception of me

What happens to a narcissistic moron against an unstoppable truth

So how do we get half the friggin country to dump their narcissistic idol. The clear "winner" of the last election.

I didn’t know anything about narcissism until my divorce 13 years ago. He is a covert narc, that used my kids to hurt me aswell as my family. My mother and sisters are also narcs. They sent me insane.

If tgey are hurting your family and friends, then you cannot ignoe them, you are trying to
Save others from them.

Become an adult.

I was 50 when I got recked by a narc.

This advice won't work, since I'm autistic. I can mask, but only for so long. So if I think that maybe I might be possible dealing with a narc, I just get rid of them. I'm eternally stuck at around age 16, and that may never change.

I guess that advice also suggests that people who get taken by narcs experience this because they're not mature.

That's one way to blame the person having the bad experience.

Stop screwing with people’s relationships.. its more than lables .

Awesome talk dude. 🙏🏽

He basically talk about the entire WEF.

I am sure this is helpful for many having to deal with difficult people. But it is important to remember that human beings are not dichotomous. We all have the kind of traits described here. What we are talking about is people who exhibit these traits to an extreme. And l think it’s also important to acknowledge that we also vary in terms of our credulity and susceptibility. In the words of the song “Some of us want to abuse, some of us want to be abused”

The problem with all of this is their revenge, they will come back at you a hundred times harder. Best things is always, no matter what, no contact.

This is very helpful, thank you ❤

Outstanding!

Omgggg when you said “I’m the type of person”, that is his favorite line! That so so triggering to hear. I left two months ago, still have to coparent so this is so helpful! I appreciate all your content. It’s getting me to the other side ❤

My experience with two hardcore narcissists is to walk away before they resort to doing something real scummy like cheat on you. The first was with my childrens mother and was a 7 year relationship, the second was a breakup that just happened yesterday, id already been emotionally withdrawn for some time and wasn't beating around the bush that i was mainly still involved for hooking up but it still hurt when she sent me a text from her usual # while simultaneously texting me from her other # that i almost never talk to her on about something completely different and sexual. It didn't take me long to call her out and she went through almost all the stereotypical stages over the course of a couple days. Denial and lies, then a whole lot of deflecting and accusing, then she stopped denying it but never admitted it and began provoking insults, asking if i was jealous etc., when that fell flat she resorted to threats.

So you say, calling my covert ex a cunt and human garbage she would take offense to it? LOL!

This is The Best And Most Understandable Advice I’ve seen for a long while…. And I totally understand it & I had it kinda sabotaging her whole narcissistic personality in a similar,give or take method. I kinda ended up coming across as like “Bored”😏😒🤦🏻‍♂️💭🙄 of All of Her Antics,her secret weapons & her whole “I’m the best/know the best” persona,And Definitely 💯 with the ‘Casual’ letting her/them know You Do Actually Know they’re wrong and you’re kinda being polite by not embarrassing them by telling them just how off-beat,or outta the ball park they are/were with their views/beliefs an even Defiant Facts they ‘thought’ they had… But I won’t go into all that I think this is the fella here who you’ll do better from listening to👍🏼 Brilliant! Loved it! Will be looking into the Matrix thing sometime 💯❤️‍🔥👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

Narcissists are NOT human. They do not have the energetic blueprint of a human. They are the seed of Satan predicted in the book of Genesis.

I just randomly came across your video and decided to check it out, out of curiosity since I've had a past experience in a narcissistic relationship (very short lived thanksfully) and realized all the things you mentioned here are all the things I did just out of instincts. I had no knowledge of narcissism at the time and just thought I met a psycho and I am doomed forever. Never felt so trapped and fearful. I'm glad I followed my instincts as it was "I get the hell out or die trying" mode and even happier to hear this information from you and your intention to help so many people sadly trapped in poision. 💜🙏

I told the ex narc partner that the best thing that i got from the situationship was learning what i didn't want in my future was them & then wiped them completely out of my life thereafter..
I feel that a much tougher situation is when it's our family...it's very sad and extremely tough to innerstand, navigate & survive.
There are no winner's when they resort to using their own beautiful innocent children to control and manipulate anyone who doesn't conform to their control...and the guilt that goes with cutting ties with the children is nothing short of soul crushing...😢 💔

You're spittin facts 😎💯

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

You are very clear!
Thank you

I have a charismatic narcissistic brother. All goes well for a few months, then he rips me apart for no real reason except pure meanness and sport. He has no idea who I am. It’s deeply toxic. All this lines up well. Like you’ve been following me around. Wow

Love this! Wow! It certainly resonates with me. I've had the misfortune of having many narcs in my life. It seems like when you get one, radar is sent out to other narcs that broadcasts the message "We have another victim here!" and they all hover and fly in (along with their insipid flying monkeys) and ingratiate themselves into your life. I was married to one such person and had professional relationships with 2 others who thought I should be a mini them! No way! Once out I found out who they really were (under their shiny, happy and larger than life disguises) - dishonest, controlling, and manipulative, I ended those relationships. Now I am assertive, speak my mind and don't put up with bull crap. I'm still dealing with a bit of the aftermath but after getting some counselling and listening to empowering and inspiring videos like this one, I am finally healing! Many thanks to you Richard Grannon for the work you're doing!

This is the best series on narcissistic personality traits n how to deal with them thank you 🙏

Perfect description of my boss. 10 working days left as have resigned. One of our customers said to me he is a narc, a brat and a coward. Correct!

You are the the typical narcissistic people

The narcisist doesn't want to be like you. He wants to be you but being you can't both be you he has to cause you to disavow yourself first, disown your self through inducing shame, destroy your self esteem through humiliation and when you are finally and completely destroyed and ready to kill yourself he can take your life your friends your community your wealth your hope and live out your dreams. He is in essence a psychic vampire.

The short curlies?? 😂😂😂

I've only watched half of this for so, and with as many comments as you have you probably won't read this but what you are missing is once you turn it on them point out their mistakes, shut them down, they do not power down. The name of the game with narcissism is, get even. I saw someone else online talking about narcissist and her advice was to run, disconnect do not go back. Cut them out of your life because if you don't they will get even and you will never be on top. The normal person isn't equipped to play the game like they are. People have asked is this condition made or is it buy birth. I say buy birth because there are so many in my family it's unbelievable. And they recognize each other and obviously they recognize those that are not narcissistic, because they immediately make them the target. I am 68 and I wish I had understood what was happening in my family so I could have escaped a long time I go. Too late for me now . I have disconnected from all of them, even the ones that are not narcissist because they will not go up against the narcissist so they have had to write me out of their lives to satisfy all the narcissists in the family. But being alone is far better than being a target.

I have seen and heard of you for the last 2.5 years. I think, though, I am finally ready to hear what you have to say. I am not trying to, “pump your tires up” but the way you explain things and the perspective you have is BEYOND all the others I have learned from on this topic. You have a gift, genuinely.