I’M BACK! Let’s Talk Toxic Family Culture in Pakistan!

aww no ma sha Allah, your mum is so sweet kind and so lovely.

Hiya could you please tell me where you stayed in Lahore and how did u book it
Thanks

FR i have few members in my fam and like you said they got nothing to do better

YOU ARE ONE OF MY FAVOURITE YOU TUBERS ANISA. MY ROLE MODEL. LEARN ALOT FROM YOU. HOPE I CAN BE AS KIND AND A GOOD HUMAN BEING LIKE YOU. GOD BLESS YOU. PLEASE GIVE AUNTIE JI A HUG FROM ME.🥰🌹

I knew something was off when u guys were staying at the hotel… i have the same experience whenever i visit my inlaws 😢 I literally come back with so much bad memories n we barely stay there like 15 to 20 days but never againnn

Hi Anisa
Soo happy you back
Love your vlogs
Keep us posted
Love your authenticity
You do natural
Love from South Africa

Literally loved my mums side back home would visit ever year, wasn’t keen on my dads. Grew up in my 20s realised my mum side is toxic af and dads are slightly more sane 😂😭 is this a universal experience??

Hi Anisa even my name is Anisa and we both have a the same spellings in our name would it be possible if you make a period = menstruation vlog tell us your story when you started your period and what you did and said to your mum

You m4ntioned BM, all Muslims need to protect themselves its very important we protect ourselves properly, there is a short Ruqyah you can do on yourselfasa means ofp4otection from bad things - protectionis all from Allah SWT

Anisa please also read morning and evening DUAs to protect from evil eye

This is so true over there toxic people envy jealousy is raging in family relatives and even neighbours there, and if they got beef with your mother they will have beef with you also, there is same happening here as well in uk with pakistani families which are toxic and jealous and envy

The facts were so true Anisa discussed in video and pls can you do a another Q&A video next time ✌🏻

Ho hae hahah,,, its good that you talk about it, we can find these kind of people everywhere. Even some of them move out of Pakistan 30, 40 years ago but still i find them the most toxic and don't understand how they live life, what upbringing they're giving to their children. But its good to see you are not taking things to your heart. Hope you're mum feels fine about it soon. Lots of love and duas for her. ❤

Lovely to see your video as always

Hiya loved ur Pakistan vlogs , I understand stand how toxic relatives are in Pakistan are , my husband family are from Pakistan , ever since I’ve been married to my husband all they done is used him for his money , he used to send so much money to them , and that still wasn’t enough 😡 it’s more greed then need , and they are very jealous ppl. My daughters love ur mum n dad they think ur parents are cute 🥰 May Allah bless u and ur family and keep u away from evil eye Ameen

Bless you❤ pakistan will never change they all are backwards uneducated

Im so relieved it wasn’t the gujrat relatives that were toxic cuz that’s where mine are from, we’re family remember ❤ I feel for your mum that she had to go through that because it would have really hurt her. Take care of her and yourself hun x

I love your sit down video, you should do them more often 🫶🏽 and I agree ppl back home prioritise culture over religion witch is mind blowing to me 🤣

Welcome back, did the cats miss you? 😁 in villages of sticky pan there worse, religion over culture 💯, everyone should strive to be a good human period.

After seeing the comment your family made and your reply, just curious to know, did they stop you from meeting your nano? Or make her go elsewhere so she doesn’t meet you? Because that makes me soo sad for your mum!

You are right! These toxic people aren't worth it.

فيديو جميل ❤😊

You're videos are amazing, mashallah love watching them ❤️

Its everywhere toxic family I'm glad to see it all unfold in front of me when I was 18 years old

ever since I cant see them the same i have forgiven but not forgotten dont let a snake bite you twice

what blush and highlighter did you use?

Thank you for being transparent about this. Gossip literally ruins people's lives, that's why I never participate in it. Relatives gossiped about me when I was in my early and late teens. Now that I'm a bit older I really don't care what they say about me because I know none of it is true. As long as you're happy, a kind person and living life based on your religion, that's all that matters

This happens alot in Pakistan, especially close family members....i know 😢

I never usually comment on videos but I had to share my experience with my mums side of the family back home! When I went to get married in 2017 I got treated like complete crap and got spoken about in the worst possible way. A day before my mehndi ceremony I went to get my henna done and when I got back I had no pillow or bed to sleep on because I was late 😒 they expected me back within 2 hours knowing bridal henna takes hours! My mum reached Pakistan the day of my mehndi and her sisters were telling her I was very rude even though I didn’t even make a fuss about not having a pillow or bed to sleep on and just slept on a khatt opposite my nephews feet 😒 haven’t spoken to them since 🤷🏻‍♀️

The politics back home are the worse we're still fighting for our zameena and our haq but it's long process when your dealing with Tahya, Mammu Chacha, The next door neighbour who somehow gets involved. Kasam ki gaal the amount of bitchyness and back-biting stepping over you , going under you over their its divide and conquer you really know who your family are but when it comes to giving them lot just take take and take ! Pookeh shoddeh bundeh

Too much politics in pakistan & their culture 😩

All ways say Alhumduilliah ❤

It’s all jealousy sis that’s the truth

What brow tint do you use? Your brows look good!❤

Hi Anisa, have watched your vlogs for a very very long time but first time commenting. So glad you are talking about this, toxic relatives and family, it is so important! This toxicity can extend into all sorts of abuse mental, physical and even sexual abuse. If people see red flags with anyone, even relatives/family it's important to do something about it or keep away etc. so many people would brush it under the carpet because they are 'relatives' but at the end of the day a person has to look after their wellbeing, safety and their kids wellbeing etc. Seen it happen to others and glad you are talking to openly about it in a public platform.

All pakistanis are evil and greedy they just want money

Exactly anisa how can these people givd badwa they are the evil 1s

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Your so right. Ive got so many eniems coming from all direction people who i dont even know.
Ive never understood it.
All i do is read namaz and QUR'AN at work and home dont talk to any one . But Alllah protects me all the time AMEEN.
Stay strong aneesa and keep your self to your self.
Nice vlog . I stay away from toxic people mostley my dads side.
May Allah give use so much barkart and happiness ameen
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Imagine your cousins or aunties watching this lol. Anyways big ups to you!!

Pls do a what’s in my bag.. and more blogs ❤❤

MaSha’Allah you’re such a sensible person. I have the same with my dad’s side of the family. They don’t have the balls to say it to your face it’s the negative and undermining undertones and the sarcasm. Unfortunately after a while all the fakeness takes a toll on your mental heath

i can’t mentally take what my dads side have done to my mum. i’ve had such dark thoughts since february where things got 10000x worse where a lie was spread about my mum randomly. unfortunately my dads side live in front of us in the uk, i wish they lived in pakistan so we could get away from them. im not saying ‘my situation is worse so u shouldnt feel bad about your situation’ but i wish i was in your position honestly. soooo much easier when the toxicity is in a whole other country.

Hi anisa hope you are doing great. I met you on my way to pakistan at saudi airport and i must say you and your mum are the sweetest people. Specially how you gave me your seat as i was holding my baby was such a kind gesture. Loved your pakistan vlogs. Sending lots of love n prayers your way ❤️❤️

U back and that's such a relief..... Welcome back

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