Beginner Crossdresser? 10 Tips to Start Your Male to Female Journey

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Not the same thing as a whole new gurl but I'm still remembering what I look like a umm can't say that I looked like I am in my new place as a whole new mature gurl in my new place is so excited to have the most special friends and how much fun we are so sexy feeling that we luv ur sexy hot video thanks again 💋💋👌👌💃💃💕

Getting a good wig is so so important. Need to spend at least a few hundred dollars

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I started crossdressing in Dec 2022. I went out for the 1st time in March 23.
start out give up on heels at the start, it will make you feel uneasy walking and you have other things on your mind when you 1st go out.
I now go out a lot, And no one has ever said anything negative to me. I am more likely to get whistles from men than bad things.
the more you show fear the more fear you will have. just go out and don't give a bad what people may think. as long as you feel good in what you are wearing

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It annoys me theres nothing out there to help those who genuinely suffering on daily basis because of this. as say I have no problem if one feels good/okay/comfortable with who they are, as I don't mind those who trans and feel right decision for them/comfortable in it. but those who are not comfortable. we need RESOURCES to help people. it's not a case of problem-SOLVED. no it's really grieving/distressing/anxiety producing/agitating/unsettling. its equivalent of mental torture. to individual. (and ongoing, very real torture). like a tortured soul/tormented soul. this is how feel. I have no problem as regards to functioning in REAL LIFE. but one thing that prevents me from doing all that is crossdressing alone. nothing to help suffering individuals like myself. I would become successful/willing to be well-functioning member of society/work a** off to help (I'd do whatever required me, EASILY and make it my goal). but this one thing. has ALWAYS BEEN that ONE THING. (been no support for). if one thing was cut off from my life I wouldn't have to feel ANY OF THIS. (but if I do, its 10x worse). It's my dream. that I no longer have to suffer. because its one thing thats stayed for 3 decades of me living now. It's REAL TORTURE. (ongoing). Even today I battling addiction element (just the same)..

While I understand why someone crossdresses (personally). I made choice not to crossdress. I hate however the fact that barely NO INFORMATION on internet whatsover focusing on the grief and distress and CRUSHING weight of crossdressing imposes on individual. cause its all just abstract to another until they suffer from it. when I say its been crushing experience I mean it. every time I crossdress even once I feel CHANGED and when I feel changed I feel guilty because now change presents in how I feel about myself and how I show to society. Im absolutely disgusted no resources out there for people like me to struggling at CRUSHING battle every day of my life. you know vietnamese scene (in film) where guy is running away from like 10 helicopters, and keeps running in spite of fire. thats me right now. its crushing because 1 there's 0/ZERO support for someone like me and understanding. (only support being my own skeleton/bones). 2. Relapse is worst thing. I call it change-dressing. because every time do it it changes something within. and as I say I feel then like that's overbearing my mental health to act/feel normal. Even just in myself. I feel 'deranged/unhinged' from what/who I should be (INSIDE). I don't feel right/feel normal. its worse because where with other things there is backdrop. crossdressing there is no backdrop. YOU ARE THE BACKDROP. so relapsing is worst thing, because you are your own safety net. its really S***. for individual like me to suffer this bad. and please don't '3rd narrate/perspective (take a back seat/backseat me)' me like I'm just another guy suffering, cause that pisses me off more than anything. when I mean it feels like 100kg on back. I mean it. slowly the cracks in my bones are starting to show/GIVE. this is what I mean by crushing weight/burden to carry.

I propose 1. we start considering other aspects such as grief/self distress/self unnormalization. 2. we set out resources to help people (like me who are very heavily burdened and dying from it). It's terrible suffering. especially when one cannot stop. and feel crushing pain every time forced to cross-dress because mental health reasons (makes them feel better in the moment). no I can't just COLD TURKEY IT. if I could hit off switch I would but that would result in even worse addiction. same way that cold turkeying food just makes me BINGE even worse. Ill find a WAY and will to get more food back if its eating out of a bin (not literal but very near literal).

I want AI TOOL that helps and prevents suffering in individuals and real understanding. not just fake understanding. or from absence of being behind the scenes. I'm prepared to go out and make AI tool. that protects those vulnerable to effects of crossdressing. cause mine is rly so bad. daily struggle is unparamount to anything Ive ever experienced. I'd honestly rather face trauma/bullying/so on that this crap. It is worst rival. It's like a strong magnet that comes back to individual eventually. There should be more help resources to those trying to stop. well I mean advanced tools. that understanding the harm it does to individual. cause I feel HARMED when I crossdress, inside I feel different and as I say unhinged not myself. It's like Re-Tripping myself up again and again/all the time/over the place. Honestly cut an arm off to stop suffering from it. just so could feel relief. cause I keep worrying and then people say relax your worry is just worry. but then I cross-dress again and I see that worry was WARRANTED. as long as feminine clothes exist and I exist I never feel safe.. and I hate that distressing (WITHOUT END). its RELENTLESSSSS... (BATTLE). Ive been stuck here for 3 DECADES SUFFERING NOW and nothing happened.. to prevent it. if could see inside bruises and pain/grief feel it. pure panick/distreess/anxiety. I have no issue if people themselves make option for themself/feel comfortable themselves but ones who do like me. there's got TO BE ENOUGH/STOPLINE. ENOUGH IS ENOUGHHHHH! JUST STOP IT.

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A really great video.Thank you Lucille. If anything, the most daunting areas for me from your top10 , are makeup & going out. I have only recently started to use make up, despite crossdressing for years & I am still not brave enough to go out fully 'en femme'.(Something to do with being seen by the neighbours!!!!) However I am brave enough to go out wearing female coats & cardigans! As for style, I tend to the 'boring' end of the scale with the aim of trying to look 'conservative' rather than looking outlandish!!! Many thanks once again & take care.

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Thank you Lucille for your tips!

Thank you Lucille
Completely SUPERB

From my own experience.. nothing is right until you start HRT hormones.

I really enjoyed your video, thank you. What you said about 'passing', my personal opinion on it is that whether one is a CD or, like me, Transgender, the aim is to blend in, though how on earth can you do that if one does not 'pass'?. Also, I have never been a proponent of 'dressing age appropriately' , so was happy to see that you kind of go along that line too.