Esther Perel | High Low with EmRata

nice... she had lot of good examples on how she usually feels that there is not so much direction in conversations such as love, sex, future plans... maybe I doesn't hit the perfect level of "what you want, is not always what you need" - but it got the wisdom :)

This is my first time listening to the host, so far I really like how she asks questions. The questions feel relatable, especially around an expert ❤ thanks for an important conversation

What is the first word that comes out of that ladies mouth? When asked the first question I cannot understand.
Emily asked her what has she noticed has changed? And then she says “the _______”

I absolutely love that esther set the tone at that first question when emily was clearly setting up an easy question with an expected answer she wanted from esther to confirm that porn was bad and how esther reframed it as not being inherently bad and not putting the responsibility of society onto this one industry

"you can not expect from one person which should be provided by a village". Love her. 🙏

EP is the absolute best. Her Tedtalk is amazing, all her research is amazing. Pornography is killlllllllling men, women, children, relationships and marriages. We must heal from this.

Porn is not meant to bring poetry into your life.
Well said 👍💪😎

She is so brilliant. Always makes so much sense. Also, so easy to listen to. Her voice <3

I love this lady! I listen to her daily!

Another good one is the therapist from the shoe Couple’s Therapy on Showtime.

I have Esther’s two books and she is such a great voice for relationships. She has helped me gain so much knowledge about dating in modern society!

What a beautiful conversation 💕🙌

it seems there were a lot of things Emily was trying to get her to confirm from her own views on men/relationships/porn, but if anyone knows Esther’s teachings, she never places the blame on one gender, and it’s clear how much Emily’s own experiences has shaped her beliefs about men as a whole. If you look at the circles she’s in and the men she typically dates, it is no surprise she feels this way. Almost all of them typically have past issues that she looks over for certain reasons and then decides most men are bad. If you date healthy curious genuine people, you will not have this outlook. I use to feel the same way about men, but I failed to acknowledge my part in this belief. Once I took a hard look at that and started dating healthy men, my entire outlook has changed.

It’s easy to place the blame on an entire gender than looking to see where maybe you have some work to do.

The porn topic was frustrating to hear from Emily, porn is not inherently bad, and can be healthy. Porn is a booming industry and not only men watch porn. Seems like lots of people enjoy it. Pushing porn to be shameful is part of the larger problem and shame around sex that she is striving to get rid of. In my opinion very contradictory beliefs, and once again she put it on men as if women don’t watch and enjoy porn.

Esther pereal' vamos pra Jauense' padéra! Bjss sinto falta de respirar.p.s rs

My favorite episode so far. So insightful. Evokes a lot of curiosity and thought. Thank you Esther and Emily.

Read my book “Social Pandemic” - A Terminally ill Modern Society. You will get all the answers. Try reading my other book also “Meditation and Spirituality a Philosophy”. Both are kind of interconnected

Great conversation. Spot. On.

Wow - I so wish this had gone longer. She has such a depth of wisdom. The last point was powerful

amazing quality content !

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Wow wow wow, the best guest, Esther is amazing every single time…

Emily, you are amazing, have to say im so positive surprise how smart and inteligent +" beauty " you are ! Love the way you bring out the questions ❤ .

I acknowledge yall ☝🏾

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Esther mentions about one of her podcasts where a man has only his wife who decides to leave him, she mentions it was extremely emotional session - does anybody know which podcast it is ? I was trying to find it without success…

The sexuality of women and children ? Children ?Can someone please explain

emily i really enjoy you as a host! very thoughtful and receptive and yet grounded in your own experience <3

An unlikely combo that's surprisingly good and I always loved Esther Perel's nuanced take on gender dynamics!!!

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Last 7 minutes got really real

Re: porn, ooooof, that’s painful, but it’s a just-as-important yyyyyyyyyyyup.
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One person or any person/ people cannot fill the Jesus sized hole we all have as well.

I don't like talking about it to anyone and watching it I feel guilty to me it's very private I don't even think about searching through emails or texts I consider it private my first wife cheated many times I just found out 45 years later that my first child is not mine

This is a great interview by Emily. Nothing but intelligent, though-out questions that help Esther to make all of us more considerate, understanding and hopefully better partners.

Love this woman and will watch this video with my wife.

ISOLATING HUMANBEINGS FROM POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS FROM LOVING SND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS ENCOURAGES PORN ADDICTION AND EVEN PROSTITUTION.A NATION GONE WILD.TIM

IM IMPRESSED. YOUR BOTHE MATURE AND INTELLIGENT OF HUMAN SEXUALITY AND ITS BEAUTY.AND ALSO ITS DARKNESS.TIM

Esther is a fount of wisdom.

Erotic: it doesn’t START with sex. Its what keeps us feeling alive.

Caretaking of his needs — being responsible for him— kills her desire.

Two women: one who’s genuinely sexy for being comfortable and wise; another playing at being sexy-looking but lacking that verve.

Get curious about her as a person (!) and her body will follow

I really appreciated this video. I’m a vibrant 56 year old widow of almost 1 year. While I’m not actively in the dating pool, I’m very open to a wonderful partner stumbling into my life, regardless of ‘societal grief timeframes’. It’s great to hear it’s ok to have an individual experience after the death of someone you considered the love of your life. I honestly never thought I’d want sex orca partner again, yet that’s not the case - and i feel no shame. I will absolutely share your book with my grief counselor. Thank you.

they have so much in common - specifically their creed! hehe I always wonder how these ppl reach such a huge audience but the truth is they have the privilege that most don't have due to their creed and belonging to one group! I wonder how our world would be if others from other parts of the world who are more intelligent, had those opportunities!

E a aula da flor??😮

This was a refreshing take on societally taboo topics. I love the transparency. This has been my experience with intimacy, and it definitely has raised eye brows, but you cannot deny the results.

Wow this woman is amazing, out the gate “are you dead, but alive”? Wow amazing.

great questions

This is why I dont have gram, fb, tick tock. I dont even know his number out of my mind just to prevent me acting like a stalker.