DO WE WATCH PORN? || the primal turn on of watching others || individual & joint experiences

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I think I'm going to show this specific video to any and all prospectic future romantic/sexual "partners" /dates and then gauge our compatibility by their reaction and resonance with this!

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There's a wide range of methods and tricks, but there is one variable that could make a massive improvement when engaging in this skill... so what could it end up being? That's pretty easy to answer as soon as you read Jevie Hindlerg's advice.

i use porn to connect with myself as well

Love you guys so much! Question - how do you go about finding and ensuring the porn you're consuming is ethical and all actors engaged consensually?

It is good to be aware of and pay attention to many men, especially increasingly younger men (late teens and early 20’s) are experiencing PIED at rapidly growing rates, trending along with the availability of high speed Internet porn.
It has unfortunately made it so many men can’t get aroused by a real partner, due to the neuropathways formed during the viewing of porn (dopamine flooding etc) and how many can only get aroused and orgasm viewing porn.
It’s influenced the abilities to connect to real life humans.. and some urologists and psychologists are finally acknowledging this is real and problematic. Many of the partners of these men in turn have PTSD.

It’s very complex and much can be discussed.

Do you have a religion? If so what is it?

Porn isn't really about sex. It's actually a form of prostitution - the performers are paid and directed, and there is a camera there to record it. Sex is something that one does for free.

thank you for making these lovely videos sheding light on these taboo topics is really beautiful! have you ever or would you ever go to a bdsm club to watch or play? thats my favorite way to tap into that tribal instinct that ya'll were talking about. 😊

as a nudist i found that clothing is sexy = that's funny to realize one day when i was around a nude person that was not used to natural gardening ...

Huge difference with real time sexuality expression around to see and internet porn to me.

I love the way you guys express your words. It feels so gentle, thought out, and considerate

my husband just said his first experience was with a wet moldy magazine " you gotta work with what you got."

Ahhhh thanks so much for sharing that little interaction at the end - you're beautiful! Individually and together! X

Hey guys! I'm so surprised to discover you. I saw Connor doing asmr viseos like a year ago and was really sad when he decided to stop doing them. Why did you stop? Your stuff was so great!

You guys are hilarious. :)

Hi Conor and Brittany. I have watched many of your videos and my favorite thing, as I have stated before, is how both of you communicate with each other and with us - so what I'm about to ask you is not to troll you, ok? lol.

You stated that you believe "There's nothing wrong with whatever you want to do." My question is, do either of you have any boundaries, and if so, what are they? For example, age difference - and what about minors? What if you meet "the love of your life" but that person is already in a monogamous relationship? What do you think about something that feels really good to you but not to someone else - violence in any form? To what extent do you mean "do what feels right for you?"

You two a beautiful people. I see you two as guides for so many young people. Shattering myths and teaching love. Keep on going. Much love to you both.

This confuses me. It doesn't matter how people in the porn are feeling - what matters is that you enjoy it? Really? I'm surprised that you feel that way. For me it's alpha/omega that people are enjoying it - otherwise it's rape. Consent is not enough. I've consented to many things that were horrible for me. It's got nothing to do with being a victim (besides, there's nothing wrong with being a victim) - it's got to do with us living under structures that make us do stuff to survive. If I were to watch porn I would stray away from mainstream porn, and look for some feminist porn and research it beforehand, as I def. would wanna watch stuff where people are genuinely enjoying it. Or watch you guys, as I'm sure you guys would have sex on cam that you're actually enjoying. I have watched mainstream porn out of curiosity in the past, so not trying to play holy here, but nowadays - after researching what's going on in mainstream porn and just from looking at it I can tell that it's so, so painful for the woman + you don't know how they feel about the free clips of them that are available online - I def. avoid it.

Porn is like everything else... addiction changes the experience. Food, alcohol, marijuana, cellphones, porn. Totally agree about the primal aspect and tribal learning... such great reminders! ❤

There is multiple documentarys in Netflix about porn industry.

I'm really captivated by the clip of you two at the end. I love the honesty and lusty feel of that interaction. It truly models what I hope for in a partnership. Thank you for sharing! Much love. :)

I think it's interesting what you talk about in the first part, about potential moral issues about the messages that porn is sending. I'm not interested in porn myself, but I think about this with relation to all kinds of fictional content that gets created. I think everyone takes unique messages from any given piece of media, and there's nothing inherently wrong with enjoying it, but there can still be some moral issues. For instance, I happen to love the 50 Shades of Grey series, but a lot of people (myself included) believe that the relationship depicted in it is emotionally abusive. And that wouldn't be bad on its own (it's one of the reasons I like the series so much), the problem is that the author and the movie producers talk about the relationship in the book as if it's perfectly normal and healthy. As a result of that, I've heard accounts of people reading the books and then being like "I want a relationship like this" and then ending up in an unhealthy relationship and not realizing it until later. Until I heard accounts of that happening, I didn't think this was a very serious issue. And like, I think if everyone really knew what a healthy relationship looks like and knew how to separate fantasy from reality in ways that worked for them, this wouldn't be as much of an issue. So like, even though everyone's experience encountering a work of fiction or piece of film is really personal, there can still be works that huge numbers of people interpret in a way that damages them. I feel kind of torn about this because I really love the series. I don't have any shame in enjoying it, but I question whether financially supporting the franchise is a good idea.

I really dig how genuine you two are. Your connection to us viewers on these more 'sensitive' topics is unreal. Much love ❤

Awww guys I want to have similar connection with my husband.. the way Conor fixed Brittany's earring..😍

thank you for sharing this porn-positive message! I think porn can be enjoyed in a healthy way both if you are single or in a relationship :)

love this video! thanks for this topic. It's great to constantly remind myself that I should let my partner know that there are open boundaries and none of these things are "bad" or off limits, porn being one of them. Thank you for this!