The Conscious Parent with Shefali Tsabary - Part One

I just cried when she said to hold love back, I’ve been doing just that and felt guilty about it, but i remember how i was loved in my childhood and how i now struggle over the fact that nobody can love me the same way, that exactly i didn’t want to for my child to feel 🥲

Resonates

Great...thanks

She is far more sensitive than the average teacher in our public schools. Very deep thinker, and I am sure very helpful to many! What a beautiful lady!!

Briliant !

Amazing words of wisdom

Thank you @Dr. Shefali. I am privilege to hear this message on 2022 my son 20 years now — had experience of these situations in this message and so myself the one doing specially the part of expectation of him and hurting the development of his spirit. I needed to hear this entirely because there is hope to succumb and lots of healing be mended. And lots of discovery looking in the mirror of within (myself). I'm grateful that you upload this message. I'm willing to take this call now -

THANK YOU.

I was just about to say I think old Justin here is a manipulator LOL. then the mom says he manipulated you didn't. yes he most certainly did. 100% that money was not for a chemistry tutor LOL.

Thank you Sr Shefali for your wisdom and attempt to awake every adult to their consciousness and authenticity. Thank you

You are brilliant..thank you for your dimension of thinking.

What an incrediblly powerful message!! ❤️

Hi Shefali, will you marry me?

This should have 5 billion views, instead of Despacito.

A masterpiece session. Thanks.

Is there a way to get Spanish captions for this video? Or a translation for any of her videos?

Thank you so much.......❤️

Thank you so much Dr. Shefali. I can finally begin to understand and move in the right direction of being a parent.

Thank you !

MIND BLOWING 🤯

Funny thing. My son's psychiatrist recommended her book. When I have more time, I'll pick up a copy. In the meantime, I'm watching this video during my lunch breaks. My son has a very hard time making friends, staying out of trouble, has major issues of abuse and abandonment from a parent, and is constantly saying he feels worthless. I was a pretty accomplished soccer player and I wanted to share my joy with him. So what do I do? Make him touch the ball 1,000 times per day like I did, because that helped me. Long story short, he didn't want to play soccer, so I directed him towards guitar because he loves music so much. I told him he could quit after 100 days and he's never stopped playing. Here's the funny thing. He's playing soccer at recess every day and it's all he talks about. Once I stopped trying so hard to "help" him become a better soccer player, he's actually drawn to it the same way I was. I know as much about guitar as my dad did about soccer, and here he is playing it every day and getting better and better at something he really loves doing.

Where's the practical advice

love love love for Shefali

Great👍

I love Dr Shefali Tsabary teachings. I think she is doing a great brave task in the awakening for better behavior in the world. Every moment of her speech is full of life and consciousness, not even one dull moment with her. I have followed several videos with her on them and she is the most interesting deep speech and conscious psychologist there is in history. Instead of labelling as traditional psychology has done for so much time she is really into the real meaning of analysis and she is really understanding the problems of human behavior. Being in the moment and letting go of expectations and respecting the other's space of life, identity and decisions are so important for world peace and she addresses it every time and I love to put her on my computer and sharing her philosophy because it is a really healing way of advice. I think she is a great living being, I admire her and I love to hear her speak with so much passion and awareness. Thank You Shefali Tsabary. EK

I down vote this not because I don't think what she says is right. No, she knows her subject and she has grasped the truth of the matter in many ways but there is a negativity and judgemental tone in her speech that that leads me to think that she is divorced from the ideals she promulgates.
There is a lack in integrity in her voice, this could be my imagination but the subliminal messages being put out fill my heart with pain not hope. Please stop putting people down, isn't that the message that is supposed to be given?

Excellent,default template of our past !

i'm glad i found this so early! thank you universe :)

W O W....THANK YOU

Just wow

I am humbled. thank you

Very good advice 👍

Thank you for this magnificent talk! I am only now learning about these helpful and wise interpersonal behavioral and attitudinal theories this past week. I needed this information 27 years ago. 😳😔 I am so glad for everyone whom can benefit from using this information to implementation in one's life. I am viewing every one of her talks! I will get her book soon.

love your work Shefali. thanks

she is so articulate.

so true and provoking

beautiful talk!

I love this

This is absolutely amazing! Dr Shefali is incredible and I am so thankful I came across her books and insights - life changing if you're ready to really receive and awaken to what she is saying! Spot on

She's saying that it's from childhood(if the mom didn't give u mutch affection)..how can u have a good life as an adult if this happend

Shefali is doing SO much for children, thank you for helping us all reach a higher place with our kids :D

You are an amazing speaker.  The ideas you present to a different type of parenting has come to me years ago, I just was not ready, able and willing enough to really make the changes.  I am raising my grandson and he has just turned 16.  I am so willing now to make that connection and stop trying to control. Luckily, I am seeing a therapist helping me through it.  Thanks so much for bringing this awareness back. Bless you!

THANK YOU!! This is SO fabulous. 
You have relieved me of the guilt and the power struggle of my dinner time drama with my son. The as is, is more important than how much he eats.  Thank you. 

I just ordered her book from Amazon.

She puts into words very eloquently the inner conflict of parenthood.  And it's resolution. Powerful. Is there a Part 2 yet?