I Quietly Left After Discovering My Wife’s Affair After 3.5 Years....-Reddit Cheating Stories

Rehash of an old, tired story that’s made the rounds on numerous other channels. You’d think that with the name “Reddit” in the channel’s name, whomever runs this channel would pull from the literally thousands of stories there. I guess being lazy and putting zero effort into the final presentation is just too much work.

Just like subscribing and liking this video is just too much work. However, downvoting is super easy.

Nothing drives an adulterous woman more crazy than silence and indifference. No contact is the way to go. If you have kids use a phone app to coordinate handoffs so you don't have to talk to her.

To many times I hear of non forgiveness. Anything that breaks can be stronger. My wife cheated on me and knows if I would have found him I would have beaten him to a pulp. I'm 6'3"/ 285#. Martial arts and high level wrestling.
The hardest thing to discern is if she has true contrition for what happened. AND if you can forgive and trust once again.

Addendum, we had been married 38 years

That is some pretty amazing cake making.

This dude is stupid

This is an old story

Anybody who has been through a divorce can see how these stories are just so much BS. You don't just walk away as much as you want to you when you are married, you are financially tied to each other even if you don't have kids. And believe me some people fight over every penny even if they have just done a 100 man train and will still blame you for it. Real stories of break up are too hard to read for the partner who puts the most into a relationship.

Old story and she’s still just a cheap cheating 304.

.. Give’em Cake! 🍰

I don't know why, but this tale of infidelity makes me hungry.

Ray has a very unusual vocabulary for “just a country guy.”

Let her eat cake 😂😂

I love these "creative writings" but I never thought about ghosting someone in this scenario but I know would. It's only way to punish them as strongly as they punished me.

I have seen this story numerous times, but this was the first with the incel red pill comment.

love the cake

"For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, GOD will not forgive you of your sins - MATTHEW 18:33-35

*Look, I get it, you've been devastated, hurt, mocked, shamed and disrespected. A great number of spouses, have also been devastatingly hurt for the same reason, but seeking revenge, denying forgiveness, holding onto a grudge, it... it doesn't harm the one who wronged you, it "ONLY BRINGS HARM UNTO YOU!"*

"I speak from experience, don't let what happened, destroy you, please 😢"

You could listen to what she says to get some type of closer. But we all know she wouldnt give you the full truth anyways. Then you leave and dont talk her again. She broke your trust, and she would of had less respect for you later in the relationship again if you took her back. Cause she knows shes not worth taking back.

Thought for sure he was going to bang Ray lol

This guy was so smart to file for divorce and the only reason why she want op because she is lonely

This guy has an update. Apparently the ex wife was getting married again (by now probably already has gotten married)

I wonder if she told her new husband the truth about her divorce?

Yeah probably not

This man is a fool, why did he give his ex the time of day?

😂😂😂 after they*****things up why do they end relationship with AP what is that about?

You grief your adulterous ex wife? She's a garbage brother.

When all was said and done, she moved away and got married to some other poor sucker within a year.

I feel for this guy - he didn't deserve this.

What a simp !! No wonder she cheated on you , I would move again and never tell her friends anything or get a restraint against her

ugh. i liked OP until he dropped the “beta blue pilled” language that so many jaded yucky men adopt

He IS a "beta male", didnt have the guts to tell his wife that he knew about her affair and divorce her. He was crying in the car and only left because some random dude in a bar invited him to his house to discuss living in his trailor. Then he snuck out of the coffee shop so she wouldnt see him lol. That random "blue pill/beta" line leads me to believe that he had been watching red pill content and got hype, thinking that the way he did things is what other "bros" would do. At the end of the day hes a regular, average looking guy who is introverted lol.

Error? This ain’t inside baseball!!😮

🙄 man smfh ....

These cakes are horrendous 😂😢

Leave her a note, "How do you climb a corporate ladder on your back?". But silence is the absolute best way to deal with a cheater.

Not might, she definitely will cheat on them. she will only be more carefull in the future.

Be careful of your backgrounds. This has nothing to do with the story and flashes so fast only a psychotic could enjoy trying to separate it from the story. Thumbs down.

You didn't shater her heart. You pushed a god off it's pedestal leaving, and shattered her PRIDE.

A good story. Except the original didn't cut out a half hour of major plot points. This version is dull and void of the soul of the story. This is the pamphlet version of a short story.

I've heard this story on a few channels. I really don't know why he gave his ex the time of day when she found him or started second guessing himself. Thank goodness he cut her off again.

Nothing hurts a woman more than ghosting her, depriving her the opportunity to gaslight and blame-shift.

“Fight or flight response I prefer flight” he rightly prefers flight because there is nothing worth fighting for.

Women always blame the man for not giving them enough attention etc.

Old story but good story

OP does t hold any responsibility for “shattering her heart”. She instigated the situation, knowing that cheating always an unforgivable deal breaker. She’s personally responsible for any pain she felt when he left.

For some reason I need the bacon cookie

Isn’t this a combination of 2 different stories!?

Never, never, but never, get back into a relationship that didn't work out, even if you were the one who cheated. Resentment, hurt and grudge are always hovering. It's much worse if it's the woman who cheated, because in general, female physical betrayal requires months of emotional betrayal, it's almost never casual.

Repeat story w/a different AI.

Will always be known as a “cheater” will never change