9 SIGNS YOU MUST CUT ALL TIES (Even If It's with Family or Friends)

Unfortunately we live in a world where people don't care. Back in the days it was real.

Ikaw Ang I ka cut ko.

Can't listen to this supercilious AI voice.

I have two daughters that fit the description you've given- one especially cruel who claims her autism card for everything. Personally I don't think she has autism just sheer rude manners that I certainly never taught her.The other one drains me when she comes to visit it's all about her. I'm not very well but I have never been offered help of any kind. If I say one word out of place the " autism" one will gaslight me for going gainst her opinion. It's very lonely on my own but I have more comfort from the cat than I do from them..

I was married for 13 years. I cannot remember one time he ever complimented me, only subtle reminders of my imperfections that became more direct over time. He offered no emotional support for anything, but instead ridiculed whatever it was that upset me as if I should'nt be feeling that way. I stayed too long in that negative environment. What a waste.

What do you do when it is your own children

Sadly I can't think of a single relationship I have presently or in the past, which did not include at least one or more of these things. People are not perfect, and yes many are terrible to be around, but I have no idea how to find anyone that does not include all the listed "red flags: here. Anyone who tries to find a friend minus any single one of these, may be a very lonely person for the rest of their lives.

Men are worse

My ex has turned on me hes abusive

Its very important to understand that no strings attach to anyone or anything attitudes will serve you well in the long run therefore life will be much easier

That’s a dangerous advice family members that care about you may have a family member that’s very irresponsible and dangerous and if they’re trying to give them a help letting them know that these decisions are making could cost them a high price and they’re trying to get the shed the light on it but you’re telling them to get the hell away from our family that’s why psychiatry doesn’t work because you don’t put church and God in the mix. God aims to keep the family close and loving and understanding and kind and patient you’re not teaching that you’re teaching everything but that’s not helpful and it’s definitely not God’s intent so be very careful

9 key signs you must cut all ties with (even if it’s family and friends)

(1) constant manipulation
(2) lack of support
(3) excessive complaining
(4) feeling exhausted
(5) lack of trust
(6) excessive self-exaltation
(7) one-sided relationship
(8) boundary violation
(9) lack of respect

One can also have a parent who behaves in this way.

(A valuable lesson for those who are victim curious)
After 30 years of marriage, my experience has taught me that as my self confidence and self worth grew from therapy, my ex's behaviors became more and more controlling, demeaning, degrading and desperate. I just woke up one morning after an evening of acrimonious fighting to the realization that this relationship was poisonous.

Her last desperate move in order to keep me home - rather than let me move out and seek a new life out west - my ex falsely accused me of a mental breakdown, being bipolar, indulging in drug and alcohol abuse, cheating, lying and being a dangerously violent (black belt - no kidding).

I was apprehended by five (5) policemen and spent three days in a psychiatric ward on my way West. I was smart enough to keep calm and stay silent. A young inexperienced psychiatrist figured she had me pegged dead to rights and started the process of having me committed for a three months evaluation. Luckily, I was able to eventually articulate to the resident psychiatrist that I was the victim and my ex was the predator.

A surprising anecdote to this story is where the psychiatrist told me that my SUV was pointing towards the right direction and wished me Godspeed. Psychiatrists are not supposed to give advice. The fact that both my own psychiatrist and family doctor vouched for me and I had no record of violence didn't hurt.

The reason I write this story is the fact that even though I was under professional care, I needed to figure this out for myself and make life altering decisions. It was either lead poisoning or say bye bye to the ex. I needed to reach that inflection point in order to understand the 'boiling point' idiom of our relationship.

In order to get out of a boiling pot, you need to realize that you are in a boiling pot...before It's too late. If you are in love, you will not figure this out by yourself. Seek professional help and Godspeed.😊

If we applied your thinking and 9 reasons most of us would have no friends or family at all! Life and relationships are about compremise , patience and seeing the positve side not dwelling on the negative so your advice whilst worth considering in theory is just not practical in the real world of People!
Unless the relationship has no positive sides and is totally toxic then it becomes obvious one must cease it!

The old man? JUST an advertising ploy? A graphic image to woo your viewers. The face is certainly not that of Carl Gustav Jung or any one of notoriety in the clinical mental health world. Any answers? Other than an image to fit a visual needs for your demographics? Respectfully submitted for your consideration Gregg Oreo Long Beach CA États

1. Constant manipulation/control. 2.Lack of support / mutual support 3. Excessive complaining/ negative emotional climate, compromised serenity 4. Feeling exhausted after interacting/constantly "giving" 5. Lack of trust/doubts and suspicions of partner 6. Excessive self aggrandizement/ focuses on praising "me" and discounting "you"/your value 7. One- sided communication/no time to hear your dialogue needs 8. Personal boundaries violations/ emotional and physical.9.lack of respect/ perhaps harmful, eventually

Wow my mother and brother bloody sad but necessary to leave them behind I never even got a birthday card or phone call when I turned 60 years old

My mother constantly complains about everything and if you ask her to stop she gets hostile.

Gaslighting - manipulation, all of the above is what the maga peeps operate on in their greed and power hungry ways. American people trying to rid the toxic out.

Don't take this advice. It's evil.

❤🎉thank you so much

I feel like these types of videos can prey upon people and definitely contribute to today’s cancel culture. The listener can feel validated when no self reflection is needed or having to look at themselves, it’s just too easy to make it the other person (call them a narcissist- and walk away) So easy to throw relationships away if there are no contexts given….. the thing is, it could be the other guy, it could be you… but people are broken, they get it wrong sometimes. If you’re looking for perfection, you won’t find it in earthly relationships. Always best to have an honest look at oneself and learn from difficult situations and relationships more often than not we find the other person is not the only one with ‘issues’.

This all makes sense .

The universe always has perfect timing because I was just thinking about this all today. ✨Synchronicity✨Thank you!🙏💫💞

Thank you

Cut-off is right

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Unfortunately, in order to visit with other family members, one must tolerate the toxic member who is perceived to be even closer in relationship, all the while not understanding that the toxic person isn't as precious as assumed.

It needs to be understood that in order to avoid the toxic member, most other family contacts will automatically become non existent. One must count the cost of this decision; it doesn't simply involve me and one person. That person will attend every family gathering without knowledge that I'm only there to see others. Welcome to my life.

family members don’t care and don’t care and all there do Is complain about me and they don’t want to see me or my son happy to live together and want to say she will not be able to manager him It truly hurtful and nasty feels and on one love anyone and what they say Is hurtful and wrong and say she to much of burden on us and I don’t ask them


and I have done so much for them what did I get In return anything nevernt say thank you and It hurt my heart and they don’t want me In there life and there want to put me to go Into a care home as my parents will sell there home where


will I go that Is thrown on the street and defend for myself and none of the family care I have seen that how they are and learn my lesson well that Is and what can I do that Is and It made me think


twice and I said to myself that I will move my son out of there house and do It In my own time and they think there can take my son away from me think again I love my son from my heart



and our relationship has broken and they are cold Inside there heart and nice on the face so why play that game with me on one Is true at all and they have to be honest tell me why they hurt me what


have I done so wrong that they have turned there back on me and they have shown dark side to me and I am hurtful

This is Nonsens
A close Family member decided after a minor difference to stop all communication. This didn’t contribute to my wellbeing. It doesn’t leave any room to reconsider and to heal.

❤️ Thank you!

This was really useful information. My ex-friend was exactly as described in this video. Now I know that I did the right thing cutting off contact with them.

I love that the narrator sounds like King Charles…Lol

This is not good advice some people dont know they need help until its addressed! As A Christian i pray and address their behavior! To them give them opportunities to change or stop

My sister is Satan and there is nothing that would entice me to reconnect with my family.

Divorcing my husband was a mind job. He was chronically ill. I was his caretaker, breadwinner housekeeper...and when I (literally) fell ill from exhaustion, he was completely absent. I realized I was totally alone. I woke up the hard way. FF 2 years...I'm free. Hardest chapter in my life. Cleaning out his hoarder house was a hard lesson.

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I continue to 🙏 for them and ask God to give me strength through it all. I do not like drama.

I live in a senior community and its like being back in highschool with the gossip, pettiness, cliques etc. Recently a couple women invited me to movie night at ones apt. They acted like they were giving me a gift, special treatment. Heres the rub; this had been going on a good while but i wasnt aware as id never been invited before. Same with dinner cliques. Also, some newer residents had been invited right away and id had been there much longer. So im thinking why now? And its a turnoff and these people i had interacted with many times over the years and it was mostly always friendly and pleasant, except for the braggarts etc. So my respons is no, not interested in spending time with this type of persons. If i wasnt good enough before, im now either. Best advice for living in such an environment is lesrn to swim with sharks or stay to yourself with friendships outside of said community.

people are just vile I'm happy with my beautiful animals

Ciao, mi ritrovo in tutti questi pattern disfunzionali di comportamento. Pero perdonami, ok si parla tanto di psicopatia narcisismo ecc, ma di concreto che cosa offrono i terapeuti per questi disturbi? Io sono psicopatica a basso funzionamento, ho delle pulsioni violente h24, sono circondata da persone che vivono di amore e nell amore, relazioni/progetti/sentimenti/attitudine costruttiva nei rapporti e vita in generale ed io...? Io niente, sono un buco nero, non ho empatia e non ho morale, saperlo mi aiuta a diventare buona? no. Parlarne modifica il mio comportamento geneticamente determinato?no. Ho fatto passare un inferno in terra a chiunque abbia avuto la sfortuna di incontrarmi, certo nella vita qualcosa di utile e buono l'ho fatto anche io, ma come può fare del bene con il cuore chi un cuore non ce l'ha per natura? Ho cercato ovunque trattamenti validi per farmi sperimentare emozioni, sentimenti morali, sviluppare empatia insomma, e non esiste nulla. Ho scelto io di nascere cosi?no. I miei circuiti cerebrali sono in funzioni del mio Ego, e non riesco a invertire la rotta. Se fossi giusto un pochino psicopatica non ci sarebbe problema perche sentirei comunque delle spinte prosociali, ma il mio caso è gravissimo perche manifesto il disturbo al 100% e non ho nessuna terapia come chi ha malattie mentali. Che faccio prepraro le valigie e vado in carcere da me?

This goes for work too - a toxic environment is a toxic environment! ❤

This is utter bullshit... What do you think people are?... A bunch of pussies... God tells us to love our neighbor... There's nothing perfect about this world.. Get over it.. Grow a pair...😑

But we cut off everyone and we're alone, believe me that's not good at all especially when you're older.

I grew up around very toxic relatives and the older I got, the more I realized how crazy it was for my parents to blindly invite them over on a very consistent basis, well knowing what they did to my mom as a kid. It makes me sick to my stomach that "just because they were family", I had to be forced around a pedo in my grandfather and a pill addict in my grandmother. So as an adult, I have zero problem cutting off toxic relatives or toxic friends, that includes a sibling that is very narcissistic. Nothing is creepier than your parents staying silent while you tell them you cant be around said sibling anymore because of their behavior towards me. They act like Im the bad guy because itll mess up their perfect family illusion.

Sometimes people just out grow each other and part ways.

Unfortunately there are so many people with these characteristics

We cant make other peoples choices. Nor be expected to accept blame. Each of us is on a separate path and each of us must learn different lessons in order to grow....

Relationships sound like hard work. I'd rather be alone with Jesus.