Common Swinger Rules and Boundaries | List Of Common Rules in the Swinging Lifestyle

We keep it simple.... No rules..lol We find that couples with a list of rules spend more time watching their partner than they do playing. It's very distracting

Excellent video, i hope to join you guys one day

Warning: Swingers especially in Florida are highly racist and huge trump supporters. Beware before you let one of these fools talk you into coming to a party. I have seen things that would blow your mind and I am a better person than that. My role was providing services for events...face painting, body art, couples images and videos etc. Then there were the bareback crowd who really think thats safe. One man told me condoms protect him from everything, I said are you sure about that? He said yeah. I didnt even go through the CDC warnings because he already mentioned he was a anti vaxx type guy. Just passing a parking lot of a swingers club you can see the trump stickers on cars and a few have big trucks with huge trump flags on them.

I want to record my wife with a dude. How do I come about it

Just a comment. Please don't take it wrong. Have you considered adding curtains or some other sound absorbing material in the rooms where you make your videos. I noticed a lot of echoing or sound bouncing off hard surfaces in front of your stairs. Consider one of those fluffy things to go over your mic. I am not a photographer so "fluffy things" is the best I have got.

Love this couple and agree with a lot of what they say. We had a couple where the female half of the other couple wanted to play with me and was way to pushy and my wife called it off, best decision ever as we met them a couple of times after that and the female was way to mouthy for her own good to the point her husband was embarrassed by her.

What is your take on dental dams? Are they commonly used in the lifestyle at meets?

We are a same room couple.

Lots of people make me feel weird about my rules. Our rules are no kissing and no other sex oral and no cuddling.

My rule is we have to be the same size that’s it !

It must be ever so wonderful to lust in a controlled environment! FUN IT IS!

Decided to 'play' and at first it was fun because she was so good in bed but now every time I turn around she's at my office or at my car!

My now ex gives swinger vibes and it broke my heart to watch her let anyone touch her and give her attention in front of me. She told me to go keep myself busy somewhere else at the bar. But “I’m coming home with you so what does it matter” and it’s just not for me :/ I’m old fashioned

I could never take it for the team lol 😂

where can we find swing parties ?

He is still in love with her..she isn't anymore ...that's the vibe I'm getting anyways...sad. 😌

Listening to this makes me realize how messed up society is.

Drug test is crazy lmao

How can we get comfortable with Parallel play? We want to spice up the sex life and we met a nice couple who wants to try it with us

I've always been a person that likes the idea of open relationships to be honest I forgot that swinging was a thing until one of my friends told me about it doesn't mean her started talking and I think I might like the idea of swinging but I don't know where to start

I would like to know about the swinger bag if possible

do you get to be with guys too or is it only with girls

Hey guys! Love the content keep up the good work. Have a question that may be a good idea for a video for you guys. Need some advice. 32 years old here and I spent most of my 20s with my ex gf and we were swinging which started out with her exploring her bi side and then slowly it kept progressing and we became full over time. We ultimately didn't work out because she broke too many lifestyle golden rules and I found out some things that went down prior to us even getting into swinging so I left. The experience hasn't swayed me from the lifestyle because when done right it is an amazing experience and brings people closer together. My question pertains to dating after you were in the lifestyle. Where do people go from there? Someone being in the lifestyle isn't a prerequisite for me, it's just also not going to be an issue for me either. When it comes to dating and getting to know someone on a deeper level and they want to know my sexual background, I am open and honest about my swinging experience and how it has shaped me as a man n made me stronger n confident...but in their eyes I can immediately see the judgment and I'm looked at as a leper and the energy completely changes even though they put up a front that they were open minded n "wild" n made me feel comfy sharing. They view me as Oh you just want to fuck other people..which isn't the case, I'm just understanding of human sexuality and I genuinely enjoy my partner being happy n exploring herself n misbehaving with my bestfriend/lover as a team. Am I being too honest with potential interests? Dont ask Dont tell? Am I forever alone? Do I adjust my target demographic n strictly go for women who are lifestyle-oriented? Idk just kind of at a loss here and it's not necessarily something you can just talk about with vanilla people n you guys seem very down to earth n I felt comfy coming to you two with potential advice on this particular topic. My apologies for the long-winded comment. Again, great work. Love seeing more younger people embracing the lifestyle and promoting all that it potentially has to offer under the right circumstances

enjoy ur life to the fullest... no regrets .......

Awesome job! We just started exploring the LS and wish they had this info for all newbies!

Have you done a lifestyle house party instruction for newbies video?

Very timely video as my partner and I are starting the talks of our rules and boundaries. She has experience in the LS as a couple, I only have experience as a single male. Great video and thanks for the info!

You are such a great couple, im still looking for my swinging woman.

Sounds fun … until another fellow jousts your date

Hi there wonderful couple!!