BPD and Fear of Abandonment | BPD | Borderline Personality Disorder

Thank you for speaking out on these issues Rich <3 I've found these videos very enlightening

I have not been diagnosed with BPD yet, my current therapist sees signs but I just started going to her and she doesn't want to rush a diagnosis. I've been diagnosed with other things, none of which really seemed to completely explain things going on with me. I have just felt so alone my whole life because of the things I feel and the ways I react. When I came across a video of a woman describing her BPD years ago, I finally felt understood. Finally felt like I wasn't so alone in these feelings and thoughts. I'm not self-diagnosing at all, but I was finally brave enough to bring it up to my therapist. This therapist I'm being completely honest with because I truly want help with this time. I have ruined so much in my life because of my reactions that often weren't warranted. When I saw that so much of BPD resonated with me I felt relief because I felt less alone, but I also got scared to be honest. I hide any symptoms from my therapists for years that could possibly be linked to BPD. I think because of the stigma, I even had a therapist tell me, "You don't want to be diagnosed with that". If it is the truth of my current suffering, I want to know. If it is something else, I want to know. I want to work through this. More than anything I just want a stable, happy, healthy relationship with myself and others. Just thank you for these videos.

Perfect explanation! Thank you!

how can someone with BPD have a fear of abandonment then simultaniously write people off. It makes no sense

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