How THIS Man's Life Changed After Marrying an Asian Woman

My X was not Chinese. However, after one child, she became insanely possessive and hostile towards my family. Caught her one day telling our 4 year old that my family was evil and she shouldn’t go near them or places with me. Slowly, the child just started withdrawing. Didnt want to go to the grocery store or two her cousins or to go flying. Basically became completely attached to the X alone. Basically led to a situation in which the the home
Life was a disaster. Completely alone, but not alone. Getting out was expensive and very hard. Not sure what other choice was realistic

Title misleading . She is one of many asian women

or, be realistic about the downsides in your life, but have fun with what you have left, keep your home, and the mother of your children in the same house, and grow so that you can have a good life despite the challenges it presents :)

The majority of women from China are exploiting international marriage as a mantrap that will inevitably eat you alive, at least that's what I have been seeing in a day-to-day basis here in Hong Kong. All men from developed countries should think twice before marrying girls from overseas with a poor background, most of them are just using you as a tool to improve their life and as a stepping stone to bring their family over to parasitize your country.

No matter how innocent or pitiful they look, remember you men are no superhero and you were not born to save them from their miserable life that you comprehend. These sweet talkers are hunters and you on the other hand belong to the bottom of this merciless food chain, do not overestimate yourself.

Be smart and don't fall for that.

Not exclusive to Asian cultures. Latin American also. All these men who go abroad to PICK UP a bride with preconceived assumptions can't let go of "Americana". Taking them back immediately is a huge no no. When go go and seek to PICK UP, they will attract a certain type of woman. Passport Bros are not EXPATS. Now, If you want a guaranteed good wife outside the USA, you must be an expat and live and work abroad for up to 10 years. Living among the locals gives you status and opportunity to scrutinize, game them, and set boundaries. One of the boundaries is "I am never going back to America" (even if you do plan to return). If she accepts THAT and no games played, she will be the woman you were wishing for. After grooming her over the USA and its true social nature, she will not have the expectations to and to live there. My personal example, I live and work as an expat in Central America. lived among them, was great, had babes flocking over me. When I went there I was living there for like 7 years. At 32 years old, I met a 20 year old girl, we clicked, set boundaries, especially "No return to America". We wanted the same things long term, values, and the desires fore eachother were off the charts. I tested her for 304 behavior (you HAVE to) and she passed them, and was true to her word that she was a virgin. I married her, now 20+ married and with two great kids. We go to the States on vacations, both children are US citizens, but she has enough visuals and intel to not want to go there and live. Hope this helps. Message - NEVER go to pick up wives. You must live among the locals for a while or just be an outright expat (not the same as passport bro).

I know a dude he married and had 2 kids with a Japanese women who totally divorced raped him. These Asian women are not the answer. Not marrying is the answer.

There a good and bad woman.
I generally don't find Chinese women attractive so i would never date them. But Chinese women generally are very conservative and don't marry a foreigner none Chinese. But also Chinese are required to look financially after there family members. Men think they going to get an easy marriage but its very complicated with Chinese women.
Most western man would have a very complicated life because the culture is all about money 🤑.
They are required to provide all sorts of financial assistance to there families. I would definitely never marry into those cultures.
To find a good woman you can find this anywhere but you got to be snart abd read the signs .

No. It isn't exclusive to Chinese women. This is all women. I have a chinese wife and a common phrase that I use to defend myself agains this is F*** off. On occasion I use this phrase unprovoked. It lets her know up front not to press her luck. It works pretty well.

Godless people are impossible to yoke oneself with. They lack integrity, empathy and morals.

You marry Chinese You get Wong girl.

this kind of suprises me maybe its because they bring these girls to america and get westernized but people always say asain chicks are submissive and soft. I'm not really into asain chicks so I don't really care either way. In fact black chicks and asain chicks are on the bottom of my list of girls I'm attracted to not to say there aren't some attractive ones out there they're just not likely to catch my eye so I dont really care either way on this but I know most of friends go nuts for asains and generally thats what they tell me but I guess its false I dont know.

This goes to show some women can expose a chink in men's armour

Find a woman as close to your own culture as possible, and within a few years of your age, either direction. You may have to choose down a bit - it works better that way than trying to go up (for women it may be the opposite). The girl in H.S. that wasn't quite good enough for you back then might be a great candidate. Does she look at you like she seems to adore you? Does she like her father? Is she kind towards others, including you? Forget about highly educated, forget about social status and for heaven's sake, forget about strongly/strikingly independent.

I'm sorry but I would not trust any women from a communist country, it goes completely against my core beliefs.

I am conflicted but at the end of the day I don't feel sorry for American guys that stereotype all American women and then go to Asian women in foreign countries thinking they're gonna be the perfect submissive slave of a wife... that's naive and foolish. Because not all women are the same.

I think men need to understand that really they are also part of the problem. Very often, I would find men looking for international wives but for some reason (whether deliberate or not) they pivot to women that are lower class. The impoversihed ones yearning for an American man to take her to America and get a green card, women who hang ou tin shady places, women who seel money from the jump etc... There aer lots of women out there (asians or otherwise) that are traditional, hard-working, and compassionate.... you just need to stop shopping for the lowest fruit of the tree

And they can’t drive for shit

She got the WHITE PRIZE!! He got stuck.

I had a filipina girlfriend for 5 months.

At first it was amazing until she admitted after a month of seeing each other that she had been engaged and was living with her fiance and she had created a fake social media to talk to me because there were pictures of her fiance on it.

He had cheated on her by kissing another woman and she was in the process of leaving.

After her confession I kept my options open until she kept pursuing to which I obliged.

She started moving her stuff into my place after a month of us seeing each other which was fast but she was trying to leave his place.

One night she compared me negatively to him saying,
"My ex is better than you. I'm better than you.
You're a loser."
I asked her again if she meant that and she replied, "Do you not see that you are?"

(Her ex was an ex marine who is now a project manager who makes good money who's not exactly handsome and has a drinking problem.)

I tried to make her leave that night for saying that but she wouldn't so we made up.

Meanwhile she's been in communication with her ex through texts this whole time while seeing me.

One night she went to a restaurant with him, she said it was for a "business meeting".

2 weeks later we got an apartment.
After I had moved my stuff in she requested I take everything out because her ex fiance was moving her stuff in and if he saw my stuff he'd be, " upset".
So like a fool I did and I left.

Living with her she started to become argumentative and I couldn't leave to go anywhere without her asking to go with me.
She would also look over my shoulder anytime I was on the phone, put her face in front of it and say, "Who's that?" to which I replied, "An email notification etc." I'd show her every notification just about.
Any girl we passed in public she'd say, "She looks like your type" "You like her?" "
If I posted a new profile picture she'd accuse me of doing it to get other women.
If I talked to any woman casually or work related I'd get ALL CAPS RAGE TEXTS, DOUBLE TEXTS, TRIPLE, CUSSING ME OUT WITH SEVERAL EXCLAMATION MARKS!!!!"

When I'd confront her about this she'd say, "Don't worry about it, ignore it, I'm just expressing myself"

One night I got something to drink and she confronted me about it because she said it was hers, though we shared everything, she started an argument and ended up pouring the drink on me and calling her ex right afterwards.

The next thing that happened is she took my phone and locked herself in her bedroom.
She denied having it for 2 weeks until she admitted smashing it and changing my passwords which she claimed she forgot.

I ended up telling her we shouldn't talk anymore so she stormed off in her car.

3 days later she logs in on my social media and revenge porn's me by sending photos to people I talked to, friends.

She blocked me everywhere afterwards and I haven't heard from her since.

A month later I saw she got arrested for shoplifting.

I assume she's back with her ex.

True 👍

Leave while you have the strength to keep your life together.

Idk why still many men don't realize Asian women controlling the finances, even if the man EARNS all of what "they" make, the woman controls it.. it's literally just the way the culture is.. Don't know why men create this fantasy that Asian women are the best. I would say they are the WORST.

You de MAN…I’m in Asia and YES you’re right

Its so obvious that the passport wife thing is a colossal mistake for American men, these are women who are already rejected by the men in their country so they cant wait to attach like velcro to a lonely sucker from the US.

King teacher : i been living in Asia last 30 years , you are spot on " yes yes yes wife . From japan korea to Thailand Indonesia Philippines, wifes can be a nightmare. Dont do it . Cheer king .🎉

I’ve never had the problem of no sex from any of the many women ever in my life. I don’t get that.

*******ATTENTION ATTENTION** VERY IMPORTANT***
I highly recommend that the guy that is married to the Chinese woman read about a South Dakota Trust and contact a Trust Attorney in South Dakota. This could save him from losing his assets. In fact this information could possibly help any man thinking about divorce.

Never trust ANYONE FROM CHINA. COMMUNST SWINES FOR SURE.

Looks like all women around the world have some sort of BPD/NPD traits no matter where they have borned

Holy smokes im literally exactly in this subscribers situation to a T except my wife is from a different asian country. This is insane.

Good advice to run Forest, run. A home as a sanctuary ? it was years, like 6 years after she died, that whiling locking the front door of my house, I had arealization and feeling of peace. I'm home now, peace. It had been decades it NEVER felt that way. I should have left long, long time ago. Maybe that was her strategy ? IDK.

I was that guy in my early 30s. I'm 52 now. She was a filipino nurse. I blew through all the stop signs, ignored red flags and knocked it up. Back then I had no strong male friends, no counsel, nothing. The result - my life was nuked. Train derailed. Years of paying attorneys, counselors, custody evaluations, confrontations with police due to false accusations of domestic abuse, crazy family members, total insanity. Rich is 100% right. Run like hell for the hills. You might think you can make a difference in the kids lived but here is the truth: A crazy woman is an evil, vengeful, and hateful woman. She hates you more than she loves her own kids. Get out of there before she gets you arrested.

I'm a Chinese giga chad and none of this surprises me. I've always warned my white friends Chinese girls are like this. Unless you're an East Asian alpha, East Asian girls will always see you as beta bucks, even if you are a white/black alpha.

I'm a Chinese man.

I would NEVER NEVER NEVER in a million years date -- let alone marry and have kids with -- a Chinese woman.

Thank you Rich. Got dumped by a Chinese girl who didn't care about all the money I've spend on her, didn't care about any connections we had, didn't care that I loved her AT ALL. I think I needed to hear this. You are right. I am far better off just not being involved with her at all.

Idk why people in the west perceive asian women as more submissive/feminine. That’s a cultural misinterpretation of public face, and not looking bad socially.

Just cause people aren’t loud publicly doesn’t mean they aren’t that way at home.

Chinese tourists are the worst 😂 don't marry one

Asian women play to be sweet but they are gold diggers and mean.

Yeah, every time I think of going out on a date, I see stories like this, and say, um, no.
Men need more legal protections before any man should touch a woman, have children, or anything.
This society is dumb, and not worth the squeeze. Change the laws, so men actually have peace in relationships.
The power has been given way too much over to women. This existence is crapola.

i am 42 years on this planet .... believe me Women DO everything in THERE best interest RLY EVERYTHING !!
you simple cannot trust me !

there are some unicorns ... but that ratio is 1 out of the 100000

it is sad but treu.

Welp, this is what happens when men choose women based on false stereotypes and weird fetishes 😂

Rule Number One ☝️
Don’t marry a Foreigner
Rule Number Two ✌️
Repeat Rule Number One ☝️

He is right 6 trips to Ukraine 7 + months I dated about 80 women from 6 to 10 out of 10. You can plot their personalities on a graph
for toxicity and looks. I think its like that everywhere in the world the exceptions are pulled off the marriage market young and gone for good.

Not much is expected of women but they expect a lot from men. It's not a tragedy to be single and to just take extremely good care of yourself. Physical wellness, mental wellness, financial wellness & social wellness comes first for you. A woman must earn the chance to participate in your life while you become the best version of yourself you can become never afraid to be single and free of grief. Its only good when its good and it might not last a long as you think. Do not take financial risk ever unless having children and family are part off the equation. A woman can be mislead and decieve for years to get a financial agenda served. Which means possibly destroying you life. My High school Principle/Basketball coach told me in 1987 after his wife died when he was 56 and 10 years into the dating market after he retired. Clenching his fist and holding it up in the air he told me all they care about is the pension. He died in his early 90s with 3 kids several Grand Children and single for almost 40 years. He had a good life and would not
be taken by a Jezebel. ha ha lol I shouldn't laugh lots of old Guys get taken by Jezebels later in life because they have not become comfortable being alone. They are financial predators with zero current or future sex appeal a Guy should set up a business to teach these Guys not to be taken to the cleaners. If they have daughters the daughters know exactly what the bitch is up to.

Let her go man. Jesus

As a Chinese man, I would never date Chinese woman also. Avoid them.

he should of let her cheat he and had her followed

I lived common law with a Chinese-Canadian woman for 10 years. Best 9 years of my life.

I'm happily married to a Filipina 25 years younger, she works hard so I dont have to. Our ages are 68/43. My secret? No assets, just pension and SS. We rent. She would get nothing if she left. Secret #2 is my vasectomy. Stop the whining and get it done guys.