What is an INFJ Male Really Like? | The INFJ Male Explained

My biggest issue as an INFJ-T male is feeling seen. I’m not really gifted when it comes to the creative spark so expressing myself is really hard. I’ve found that I’m simply here to listen and observe.

"Good afternoon,you have a nice voice and the words which comes out to your 👄 lips is so clear. Thank you for revealing the attitude and characters of infj"!

Nice ty..I’m an INFJ male and not shy at all..just selective about who I allow into my space.

It took an 11.633333333 minutes video to explain me💀

Idk why I distance myself. Is just, if they want to be there, they would. I don’t take it personally, I just think people have things to do.

I’m an INFJ man and struggle IMMENSELY connecting with people. I want to, I truly do, but my eccentric personality tends to make people feel strange around me. I don’t want to be someone whom I am not, I just want to be myself and have others appreciate my qualities. Women find me attractive, but once they start talking to me and see my weird quirks/mannerisms they tend to be turned off. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I haven’t been in a relationship for a few years now because I struggle creating relationships. I just wish there could be someone who isn’t bothered by my unusual behavior and appreciate more the substance of my character.

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I am a INFJ woman , my love is INFJ man . He is the only man that understands me. He is very creative and likes time on his own . But, that is me also . We have lots in common .

Wow! Almost 2 full mins. Before getting to the point of the video??

That coffee…deeuuunm!

You want to find us?
- Don't lie. Do not lie to us. Do not lie to yourself. you're not fooling us, you just fooling yourselves. And fools are better left alone, because foolishness is contagious.
- Being fake. The quickest way to getting door-slammed is being fake around us. Narcissist and manipulators, you people stinks to high heaven and we can spot you from a mile away. So, don't be.
- We understand you, much more than you think we do, even though we don't show it. The closer you get to us the more we know about you, more than you realized. Try your best to hide from us, but reading people is as easy as breathing. That's what we do.
- Be real. Be honest. Be a compassionate individuals. Be curious about the world. Seek pleasure in helping others, seek happiness in discovery of the unknown. These are the things we find so beautiful in a person. Not the face, nor the body. Not your money nor your fame. Not your status nor your societal hierarchy. It's the you behind those eyes we are looking at, not the you which your physical appearance represent. that's the stare is all about.
- You don't find us, we find you. Search all you want, you won't find us anywhere. The closest INFJ male might be the one standing next to you, but you won't notice him until he lets you notice him.(after an extensive observation). That's how it works. That's why you think we are so rare. Not because we are very small in number, that is not at all the case. but because we never let people know who we are in the 1st place.
Attention-seeking individuals claiming to be an INFJ male is not an INFJ. He is an INFJ wannabe. And that, ladies and gentlemen, falls under the 1st item. Don't lie.

Life is hard for us male INFJs. People say nice things about us, but in reality, it's like one man war against the world. It can be so tiring. Depression is an acquaintance we all very familiar with and very hard to get rid off. But we need to live too. So we took extra care in protecting the peace of mind that is very hard won. We are INFJ not because we want to be one. Reasons and circumstances might differed from one individual to another, but we all agree that life has not been kind to us. Somehow, someway, we handle things in a similar way, which falls under "INFJ way" of doing things. That is all. Just your average Joe. Bust the illusionary bubble yet? ... Okay, then. INFJs!!!.... dissappear....

Tell the INFJ male that you want to be their life partner at all cost and you got him.

👍🏽 well done

I am actually INfJ A and sigma character style