Dealing With People That Talk Too Much | Two Minute Mindsets | Nathan Czubaj (Shoe-Buy)

Sorry but being blunt sometimes works as well. Leaning in, asking questions, etc encourages chatterboxes to talk even more. I know this from experience

How do I tell my friend to stfu without being rude?

I live a decent life in Guyana and Trinidad who ever curse the shall pay for it and it shall reverse to who curseme

Blah blah just Tell them to STFU . simple as that

why do people do this when we don't want to hear it and don't think what they have to say is important?

I love 💕 this video you literally have time stamps. I am less frustrated thank you

This is bad advice they just gonna keep talking and bring up another topic
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The problem is that, from my experience, people who talk too much do not take kindly to being stopped, even if they have been warned that time is limited for the other party. 'Can I just finish this story, really quickly...?' 'Ok, sure, you have to go... just one more thing...' They make it sound like they have been the one listening for hours and would be grateful for the courtesy of being allowed to say just one thing, so one gives in. I socialise with so few people now because I seem to attract overtalkers, and I have not figured out any way to make them stop.

where headphones and walk away😆

I don’t want to talk to them though, I want them to shut up or leave me alone!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is for people pleasers. I’m not one of those.😂

Horrible advice

Terrible advise...so one sided...

I just hate people who talk much...most of the talks are rubbish....like they have no boundaries for others... And also dumb people...

I just stop listening at a certain point til it sounds like they took a pause in their run on sentence and say “Mhm”

The only problem that I have is my anger, I usually have a scale for whenever I go to school. And when the talkative person talks, it’s always at 4 or 5(being the highest). I either lash out and have to wait outside for me to calm down, or I would have to complain to my teacher.

The entire situation is now irritated and aggravated beyond description since the dumbing down of the masses and the general public to where their attention span is less than a goldfish in a bowl of 9 seconds...the goldfish has an 11-second attention span. Sam Vaknins "Silence When We Are All Gone" video explains it all. He says entire libraries on the human psyche are now totally obsolete and need to be rewritten to accordingly fit modern-day Zomm's mentality and mindset...

What terrible advice, completely counter productive

I think this will be difficult when dealing with either Aspies, or alcoholic relatives.

Worst advice ever.😂😂

They talk too much at a family meal at Christmas time, and its not even her family....i think its attention seeking... not easy because they never shut up...annoying for the rest of us 🙄🙄

This is a different video.. this is the positive one.. im looking for something that how to handle those people.who talks much that they dont notice no one wants to listen to them anymore.

Not bad advice perhaps, but also a reflection of a time-poor society where we don't spend enough time really understanding how others are different from us, or sharing context and interpretation. Another approach in a group, where it can be from a need to express dominance or just for company or to express what they wrongly think other people don't know, is to deliberately pay more attention to those people who are saying less but might be at least as interesting.

I mostly agree, but people like myself who have ASD don't talk to feel important. We talk because of pedantic speech, anxiety and so on. Sometimes, we don't notice when we should stop or that the other person isn't interested.

My high school sweetheart was a talker. Loved her, but couldn't stand her. She never.....stopped.....talking. Married someone else.

Awesome video!

This is the worst advice ever

Too bad, I was hoping to hear some clever Greg-House-kind comebacks😂

Too bad, I was hoping to hear some clever Greg-House-kind comebacks😂

Doesnt work like that for everyone. Trying to get a word in doesnt even work .. literally will have to overtake the conversation just to get a word. If not , they’ll just continuously talk or switch to different topics without any breaks. Its toxic

Im mostly deaf and the battery life of the device that helps me hear is limited so i have no problem or feel guilty by just cutting someone off their speech.

Why would I want them to feel value when 70% of their talking points are bullshit?

Hi Diane. You seem to have a very strong viewpoint. So you must have thought about this a great deal. How do you respond to people without damaging your relationship with them. I’m curious about your insight as you have a lot of experience in this field. Thanks.

So basically there’s no solution and we’re stuck while trying to drive or something. 😖

lm not boring🥱🥱🥱

I buy prostitute's in front of my face like all the time, cuz me and the prostitute's are not talking / we fucking ❤

And, eww a female who does talk in life 😢

What if they are plain stupid ... Doesn't it mean they are draining your energy

All this was straight 🐂💩 for more of the same nonsense 🤦🏾‍♂️ My God! Was he serious?! He's got 2 be the person who likes this done 2 him so he can talk, talk, talk, talk and talk some more, because trust and believe this is what this foolishness he was talking is going to encourage. I CAN PROMISE U THAT, but hey good luck with trying these tip😬

Then they will never shut up!

To those who talk shit about those types of people need some self reflection. Maybe the one that is talking to you is excited to talk to you because they don’t get to talk to anyone else. We are social beings, for fuck sake get off your fucking high horses

LoL not only that they wanna talk alone.

I listened a good while but the person still got offended. I got high blood pressure so I don't need the extra stress.

It just a argument waiting to happen. My advice Don't spend much time around them. They need Jesus not you. They need to read the bible and pray and do some fasting.

You got to be kidding me! Lean in so they can chew up your brain!!! You have never seen people who talk too much! This video is such a crap!

Some people just assume cause you’re there you wanna have a conversation. And some people continue to talk even after you say things like shut up or I don’t want to hear it right now. Also forgot to mention like dell griffin from planes trains and automobiles some people don’t have a point. They just have diarrhea of the mouth and bring up the most random crap.

I say, if you're dealing with them face to face (or even if you're not) keep your phone in hand and after 30 seconds, act like you're getting a call and say, Oh sorry, I have to take this call... then proceed to act like you've answered. Not the truth, but it will get them to shut up and leave. If you do that every time, maybe they'll eventually get the picture? Maybe not, but at least you have an out!

Is going to be worst and then more rubbish talking nonstop

Yeah this doesn’t work.